Bixby, Oklahoma

In-Home Dementia and Alzheimer's Care in Bixby, OK

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Local figures

Dementia Care in Bixby, OK: the local picture

371
residents 85 or older (1.2% of all residents)
3,897
residents 65 or older (13% of Bixby)
31%
of residents 65+ report a disability (35% in Tulsa County)
6+
Medicare-certified nursing homes within 25 miles

Bixby has about 371 residents aged 85 or older among 3,897 aged 65 or older. The risk of Alzheimer’s rises steeply with age, and the Alzheimer’s Association estimates that about a third of people 85 and older have Alzheimer’s dementia.

31% of residents 65 and older report a disability (35% in Tulsa County). The Census counts cognitive difficulty as one kind, alongside hearing, vision, walking, self-care and living independently.

33% of older Bixby residents in households live alone. For someone with memory loss who lives alone, a few hours of daily check-ins are often the first step.

Bixby compared with Tulsa County and Oklahoma

Census figureBixbyTulsa CountyOklahoma
Residents 85 or older1.2%1.6%1.6%
Residents 65 or older13%15%16%
Residents 65+ with a disability31%35%41%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone33%33%30%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)5.1%9.3%11%
Residents 5+ who speak a language other than English at home8.4%16%12%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$60,989$57,198—

Older residents in towns around Bixby

TownDistanceResidents 65+Residents 85+
Jenks, OK6.4 mi2,773310
Glenpool, OK7.2 mi1,56556
Broken Arrow, OK8.3 mi18,8961,513
Kiefer, OK9.8 mi20526
Coweta, OK13 mi1,514132
Tulsa, OK13 mi63,3407,290

Nursing homes near Bixby

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
Glenwood Skilled Nursing And TherapyGlenpool, OK5.9 mi3 of 5119(918) 291-4230
Ignite Medical Resort Tulsa, LLCTulsa, OK6.0 mi5 of 5104(918) 965-0101
Senior Suites HealthcareBroken Arrow, OK6.5 mi2 of 592(918) 250-5405
Forest Hills Care And Rehabilitation CenterBroken Arrow, OK7.3 mi3 of 5159(918) 254-5000
The Cottage Extended CareTulsa, OK7.4 mi3 of 5176(918) 250-8571
Grace Skilled Nursing And Therapy JenksJenks, OK7.5 mi2 of 5187(918) 299-8508

Hospices serving Bixby

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Carter Healthcare Hospice Of Northeast Oklahoma LLCBixby, OK0.4 mi(918) 425-4000
Live Well Hospice, LLCBixby, OK0.4 mi(918) 943-5416
Transitions Lifecare HospiceTulsa, OK6.4 mi(918) 551-6879
A Path Of Care HospiceTulsa, OK7.0 mi(918) 922-8200

Straight-line miles from the center of Bixby. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a dementia caregiver can help with

  • Keeping a predictable daily routine
  • Gentle help with bathing, dressing and toileting
  • Meals, hydration and medication reminders
  • Calming approaches for sundowning, agitation and repeated questions
Cost

What dementia care costs in Bixby

At the Oklahoma median aide wage of $13.32 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,154 a month in wages, which is 23% of the $5,082 monthly median income of Bixby households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Oklahoma's minimum wage is $7.25 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a dementia caregiver

An estimated 7.2 million Americans aged 65 and older are living with Alzheimer’s dementia, according to the Alzheimer’s Association 2025 Facts and Figures. Most live at home, cared for by family. The Association’s 24/7 Helpline (1-800-272-3900) is free.

Questions worth asking: Tell me about someone with dementia you cared for. What worked? What do you do when a client becomes agitated in the late afternoon? How do you keep someone safe who tries to leave the house? More in our dementia care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Dementia Care in Bixby: common questions

What nursing homes are near Bixby?

The closest Medicare-certified nursing homes are Glenwood Skilled Nursing And Therapy in Glenpool (5.9 mi, 3 of 5 overall); Ignite Medical Resort Tulsa, LLC in Tulsa (6.0 mi, 5 of 5 overall); Senior Suites Healthcare in Broken Arrow (6.5 mi, 2 of 5 overall). Ratings are from Medicare Care Compare.

How much does dementia care cost in Bixby?

At the Oklahoma median aide wage of $13.32 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,154 a month in wages, which is 23% of the $5,082 monthly median income of Bixby households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Oklahoma's minimum wage is $7.25 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

When does someone with dementia need care at home?

Common signs are missed meals or medication, getting lost in familiar places, unsafe cooking or driving, and a family caregiver who is exhausted. Many families start with a few hours a day and add hours, nights or live-in help as the disease progresses.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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