In-Home Dementia and Alzheimer's Care in Durham, NH
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Dementia Care in Durham, NH: the local picture
Durham has about 133 residents aged 85 or older among 802 aged 65 or older. The risk of Alzheimer’s rises steeply with age, and the Alzheimer’s Association estimates that about a third of people 85 and older have Alzheimer’s dementia.
26% of residents 65 and older report a disability (33% in Strafford County). The Census counts cognitive difficulty as one kind, alongside hearing, vision, walking, self-care and living independently.
25% of older Durham residents in households live alone. For someone with memory loss who lives alone, a few hours of daily check-ins are often the first step.
Durham compared with Strafford County and New Hampshire
| Census figure | Durham | Strafford County | New Hampshire |
|---|---|---|---|
| Residents 85 or older | 1.2% | 1.7% | 2.0% |
| Residents 65 or older | 7.5% | 17% | 20% |
| Residents 65+ with a disability | 26% | 33% | 28% |
| Residents 65+ in households who live alone | 25% | 31% | 27% |
| Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.) | 1.6% | 9.6% | 7.7% |
| Residents 5+ who speak a language other than English at home | 8.3% | 5.3% | 7.9% |
| Median income, households headed by someone 65+ | $92,986 | $60,487 | — |
Older residents in towns around Durham
| Town | Distance | Residents 65+ | Residents 85+ |
|---|---|---|---|
| Dover, NH | 3.7 mi | 5,597 | 673 |
| Newmarket, NH | 4.7 mi | 756 | 59 |
| South Eliot, ME | 6.7 mi | 1,380 | 95 |
| Somersworth, NH | 7.9 mi | 1,700 | 52 |
| South Berwick, ME | 8.8 mi | 528 | 76 |
| Portsmouth, NH | 9.2 mi | 4,946 | 592 |
Nursing homes near Durham
| Nursing home | Town | Distance | CMS overall rating | Certified beds | Phone |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Saint Ann Rehabilitation And Nursing Center | Dover, NH | 4.3 mi | 4 of 5 | 54 | (603) 742-2612 |
| Langdon Place Of Dover | Dover, NH | 4.3 mi | 5 of 5 | 30 | (603) 743-4110 |
| Dover Center For Health & Rehabilitation | Dover, NH | 5.2 mi | 4 of 5 | 112 | (603) 742-2676 |
| Riverside Rest Home | Dover, NH | 5.4 mi | 5 of 5 | 215 | (603) 742-1348 |
| Edgewood Centre (The) | Portsmouth, NH | 9.8 mi | 3 of 5 | 156 | (603) 436-0099 |
| Cedar Healthcare Center | Portsmouth, NH | 10 mi | 5 of 5 | 102 | (603) 431-2530 |
Hospices serving Durham
| Hospice | Office | Distance | Phone |
|---|---|---|---|
| Unity Hospice, LLC | Durham, NH | 1.8 mi | (603) 397-5915 |
| Beacon Hospice, An Amedisys Company | Portsmouth, NH | 7.7 mi | (603) 433-2480 |
| Wentworth Home Care & Hospice, An Amedisys Partner | Somersworth, NH | 8.0 mi | (603) 692-0220 |
| Beth Israel Lahey Health At Home | Exeter, NH | 11 mi | (603) 772-2981 |
Straight-line miles from the center of Durham. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.
What a dementia caregiver can help with
- Keeping a predictable daily routine
- Gentle help with bathing, dressing and toileting
- Meals, hydration and medication reminders
- Calming approaches for sundowning, agitation and repeated questions
What dementia care costs in Durham
At the New Hampshire median aide wage of $18.64 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,615 a month in wages, which is 21% of the $7,749 monthly median income of Durham households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New Hampshire's minimum wage is $7.25 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).
Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states.
What to know before hiring a dementia caregiver
An estimated 7.2 million Americans aged 65 and older are living with Alzheimer’s dementia, according to the Alzheimer’s Association 2025 Facts and Figures. Most live at home, cared for by family. The Association’s 24/7 Helpline (1-800-272-3900) is free.
Questions worth asking: Tell me about someone with dementia you cared for. What worked? What do you do when a client becomes agitated in the late afternoon? How do you keep someone safe who tries to leave the house? More in our dementia care guide.
CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.
Dementia Care in Durham: common questions
What nursing homes are near Durham?
The closest Medicare-certified nursing homes are Saint Ann Rehabilitation And Nursing Center in Dover (4.3 mi, 4 of 5 overall); Langdon Place Of Dover in Dover (4.3 mi, 5 of 5 overall); Dover Center For Health & Rehabilitation in Dover (5.2 mi, 4 of 5 overall). Ratings are from Medicare Care Compare.
How much does dementia care cost in Durham?
At the New Hampshire median aide wage of $18.64 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,615 a month in wages, which is 21% of the $7,749 monthly median income of Durham households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New Hampshire's minimum wage is $7.25 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).
When does someone with dementia need care at home?
Common signs are missed meals or medication, getting lost in familiar places, unsafe cooking or driving, and a family caregiver who is exhausted. Many families start with a few hours a day and add hours, nights or live-in help as the disease progresses.
More senior care near Durham
Dementia Care in nearby cities
- Dementia Care in Dover, NH
- Dementia Care in Newmarket, NH
- Dementia Care in South Eliot, ME
- Dementia Care in Somersworth, NH
- Dementia Care in South Berwick, ME
- Dementia Care in Portsmouth, NH
- Dementia Care in Kittery, ME
- Dementia Care in Rochester, NH
- Dementia Care in Epping, NH
- Dementia Care in Exeter, NH
- Dementia Care in York Harbor, ME
- Dementia Care in Hampton, NH
- Dementia Care in Raymond, NH
- Dementia Care in Hampton Beach, NH
- Dementia Care in Farmington, NH
- Dementia Care in Amesbury, MA
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Sources
Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.
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