Durham, New Hampshire

In-Home Dementia and Alzheimer's Care in Durham, NH

Help at home for someone living with Alzheimer’s or another dementia: steady routines, safety and patience with changes in memory and mood. Post what you need in Durham for free and hire a caregiver directly, with no agency mark-up.

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Local figures

Dementia Care in Durham, NH: the local picture

133
residents 85 or older (1.2% of all residents)
802
residents 65 or older (7.5% of Durham)
26%
of residents 65+ report a disability (33% in Strafford County)
6+
Medicare-certified nursing homes within 25 miles

Durham has about 133 residents aged 85 or older among 802 aged 65 or older. The risk of Alzheimer’s rises steeply with age, and the Alzheimer’s Association estimates that about a third of people 85 and older have Alzheimer’s dementia.

26% of residents 65 and older report a disability (33% in Strafford County). The Census counts cognitive difficulty as one kind, alongside hearing, vision, walking, self-care and living independently.

25% of older Durham residents in households live alone. For someone with memory loss who lives alone, a few hours of daily check-ins are often the first step.

Durham compared with Strafford County and New Hampshire

Census figureDurhamStrafford CountyNew Hampshire
Residents 85 or older1.2%1.7%2.0%
Residents 65 or older7.5%17%20%
Residents 65+ with a disability26%33%28%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone25%31%27%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)1.6%9.6%7.7%
Residents 5+ who speak a language other than English at home8.3%5.3%7.9%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$92,986$60,487—

Older residents in towns around Durham

TownDistanceResidents 65+Residents 85+
Dover, NH3.7 mi5,597673
Newmarket, NH4.7 mi75659
South Eliot, ME6.7 mi1,38095
Somersworth, NH7.9 mi1,70052
South Berwick, ME8.8 mi52876
Portsmouth, NH9.2 mi4,946592

Nursing homes near Durham

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
Saint Ann Rehabilitation And Nursing CenterDover, NH4.3 mi4 of 554(603) 742-2612
Langdon Place Of DoverDover, NH4.3 mi5 of 530(603) 743-4110
Dover Center For Health & RehabilitationDover, NH5.2 mi4 of 5112(603) 742-2676
Riverside Rest HomeDover, NH5.4 mi5 of 5215(603) 742-1348
Edgewood Centre (The)Portsmouth, NH9.8 mi3 of 5156(603) 436-0099
Cedar Healthcare CenterPortsmouth, NH10 mi5 of 5102(603) 431-2530

Hospices serving Durham

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Unity Hospice, LLCDurham, NH1.8 mi(603) 397-5915
Beacon Hospice, An Amedisys CompanyPortsmouth, NH7.7 mi(603) 433-2480
Wentworth Home Care & Hospice, An Amedisys PartnerSomersworth, NH8.0 mi(603) 692-0220
Beth Israel Lahey Health At HomeExeter, NH11 mi(603) 772-2981

Straight-line miles from the center of Durham. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a dementia caregiver can help with

  • Keeping a predictable daily routine
  • Gentle help with bathing, dressing and toileting
  • Meals, hydration and medication reminders
  • Calming approaches for sundowning, agitation and repeated questions
Cost

What dementia care costs in Durham

At the New Hampshire median aide wage of $18.64 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,615 a month in wages, which is 21% of the $7,749 monthly median income of Durham households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New Hampshire's minimum wage is $7.25 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a dementia caregiver

An estimated 7.2 million Americans aged 65 and older are living with Alzheimer’s dementia, according to the Alzheimer’s Association 2025 Facts and Figures. Most live at home, cared for by family. The Association’s 24/7 Helpline (1-800-272-3900) is free.

Questions worth asking: Tell me about someone with dementia you cared for. What worked? What do you do when a client becomes agitated in the late afternoon? How do you keep someone safe who tries to leave the house? More in our dementia care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Dementia Care in Durham: common questions

What nursing homes are near Durham?

The closest Medicare-certified nursing homes are Saint Ann Rehabilitation And Nursing Center in Dover (4.3 mi, 4 of 5 overall); Langdon Place Of Dover in Dover (4.3 mi, 5 of 5 overall); Dover Center For Health & Rehabilitation in Dover (5.2 mi, 4 of 5 overall). Ratings are from Medicare Care Compare.

How much does dementia care cost in Durham?

At the New Hampshire median aide wage of $18.64 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,615 a month in wages, which is 21% of the $7,749 monthly median income of Durham households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New Hampshire's minimum wage is $7.25 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

When does someone with dementia need care at home?

Common signs are missed meals or medication, getting lost in familiar places, unsafe cooking or driving, and a family caregiver who is exhausted. Many families start with a few hours a day and add hours, nights or live-in help as the disease progresses.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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