Kirkwood, Missouri

In-Home Dementia and Alzheimer's Care in Kirkwood, MO

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Local figures

Dementia Care in Kirkwood, MO: the local picture

838
residents 85 or older (2.9% of all residents)
6,084
residents 65 or older (21% of Kirkwood)
23%
of residents 65+ report a disability (28% in St. Louis County)
6+
Medicare-certified nursing homes within 25 miles

Kirkwood has about 838 residents aged 85 or older among 6,084 aged 65 or older. The risk of Alzheimer’s rises steeply with age, and the Alzheimer’s Association estimates that about a third of people 85 and older have Alzheimer’s dementia.

23% of residents 65 and older report a disability (28% in St. Louis County). The Census counts cognitive difficulty as one kind, alongside hearing, vision, walking, self-care and living independently.

35% of older Kirkwood residents in households live alone. For someone with memory loss who lives alone, a few hours of daily check-ins are often the first step.

Kirkwood compared with St. Louis County and Missouri

Census figureKirkwoodSt. Louis CountyMissouri
Residents 85 or older2.9%2.4%2.0%
Residents 65 or older21%19%18%
Residents 65+ with a disability23%28%34%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone35%32%30%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)6.8%8.2%10%
Residents 5+ who speak a language other than English at home4.4%11%6.7%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$74,802$63,295—

Older residents in towns around Kirkwood

TownDistanceResidents 65+Residents 85+
Des Peres, MO1.9 mi2,096158
Glendale, MO2.3 mi1,11714
Crestwood, MO2.8 mi2,531215
Sunset Hills, MO3.4 mi2,660577
Frontenac, MO3.5 mi684140
Rock Hill, MO3.5 mi873171

Nursing homes near Kirkwood

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
Aberdeen HeightsKirkwood, MO0.4 mi5 of 538(314) 909-6000
Kirkwood Wellness & RehabilitationKirkwood, MO0.9 mi1 of 5117(314) 965-0864
Bethesda DilworthSaint Louis, MO2.2 mi3 of 5350(314) 968-5460
Quarters At Des Peres, TheDes Peres, MO2.8 mi1 of 5147(314) 821-2886
Garden View Care Center At Dougherty FerryValley Park, MO3.2 mi4 of 566(636) 861-0500
Big Bend Woods Healthcare CenterValley Park, MO4.0 mi1 of 5135(636) 225-5144

Hospices serving Kirkwood

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Bristol Hospice - St LouisSaint Louis, MO3.1 mi(314) 962-4673
Mercy HospiceSaint Louis, MO3.1 mi(314) 729-4400
Accentcare Hospice & Palliative Care Of MissouriSaint Louis, MO3.1 mi(314) 909-6200
Fv HospiceSt Louis, MO3.1 mi(314) 270-7600

Straight-line miles from the center of Kirkwood. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a dementia caregiver can help with

  • Keeping a predictable daily routine
  • Gentle help with bathing, dressing and toileting
  • Meals, hydration and medication reminders
  • Calming approaches for sundowning, agitation and repeated questions
Cost

What dementia care costs in Kirkwood

At the Missouri median aide wage of $15.90 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,378 a month in wages, which is 22% of the $6,234 monthly median income of Kirkwood households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Missouri's minimum wage is $15.00 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Consumer Directed Services in Missouri: how a relative becomes a paid caregiver.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a dementia caregiver

An estimated 7.2 million Americans aged 65 and older are living with Alzheimer’s dementia, according to the Alzheimer’s Association 2025 Facts and Figures. Most live at home, cared for by family. The Association’s 24/7 Helpline (1-800-272-3900) is free.

Questions worth asking: Tell me about someone with dementia you cared for. What worked? What do you do when a client becomes agitated in the late afternoon? How do you keep someone safe who tries to leave the house? More in our dementia care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Dementia Care in Kirkwood: common questions

What nursing homes are near Kirkwood?

The closest Medicare-certified nursing homes are Aberdeen Heights in Kirkwood (0.4 mi, 5 of 5 overall); Kirkwood Wellness & Rehabilitation in Kirkwood (0.9 mi, 1 of 5 overall); Bethesda Dilworth in Saint Louis (2.2 mi, 3 of 5 overall). Ratings are from Medicare Care Compare.

How much does dementia care cost in Kirkwood?

At the Missouri median aide wage of $15.90 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,378 a month in wages, which is 22% of the $6,234 monthly median income of Kirkwood households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Missouri's minimum wage is $15.00 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

When does someone with dementia need care at home?

Common signs are missed meals or medication, getting lost in familiar places, unsafe cooking or driving, and a family caregiver who is exhausted. Many families start with a few hours a day and add hours, nights or live-in help as the disease progresses.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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