Dementia Care in Lemay, MO: In-Home Alzheimer's Care

Local figures

Dementia Care in Lemay, MO: the local picture

321

residents 85 or older (2.0% of all residents)

2,439

residents 65 or older (15% of Lemay)

43%

of residents 65+ report a disability (28% in St. Louis County)

6+

Medicare-certified nursing homes within 25 miles

Lemay has about 321 residents aged 85 or older among 2,439 aged 65 or older. The risk of Alzheimer’s rises steeply with age, and the Alzheimer’s Association estimates that about a third of people 85 and older have Alzheimer’s dementia.

43% of residents 65 and older report a disability (28% in St. Louis County). The Census counts cognitive difficulty as one kind, alongside hearing, vision, walking, self-care and living independently.

30% of older Lemay residents in households live alone. For someone with memory loss who lives alone, a few hours of daily check-ins are often the first step.

Lemay compared with St. Louis County and Missouri

Census figure	Lemay	St. Louis County	Missouri
Residents 85 or older	2.0%	2.4%	2.0%
Residents 65 or older	15%	19%	18%
Residents 65+ with a disability	43%	28%	34%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone	30%	32%	30%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)	12%	8.2%	10%
Residents 5+ who speak a language other than English at home	19%	11%	6.7%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+	$48,066	$63,295	—

Older residents in towns around Lemay

Town	Distance	Residents 65+	Residents 85+
Affton, MO	2.5 mi	3,716	502
Mehlville, MO	2.7 mi	6,316	791
Green Park, MO	2.9 mi	595	72
Dupo, IL	3.8 mi	576	9
Concord, MO	3.9 mi	4,406	416
Shrewsbury, MO	4.3 mi	1,761	426

Nursing homes near Lemay

Nursing home	Town	Distance	CMS overall rating	Certified beds	Phone
Lemay Nursing	Saint Louis, MO	0.5 mi	2 of 5	60	(314) 631-0540
Sherbrooke Village	Saint Louis, MO	1.0 mi	2 of 5	149	(314) 544-1111
Bluebird Wellness And Rehabilitation	Saint Louis, MO	2.7 mi	1 of 5	188	(314) 845-0900
St Louis Altenheim	Saint Louis, MO	3.2 mi	not rated	73	(314) 353-7225
Carrie Elligson Gietner Health Care Center	Saint Louis, MO	3.4 mi	1 of 5	130	(314) 752-0000
Nazareth Living Center	Saint Louis, MO	3.7 mi	1 of 5	121	(314) 487-3950

Hospices serving Lemay

Hospice	Office	Distance	Phone
Unity Hospice Gsl, LLC	Saint Louis, MO	5.4 mi	(314) 645-8648
Medi-Plex Hospice, LLC	Saint Louis, MO	6.1 mi	(314) 993-5580
Acg Hospice	Saint Louis, MO	6.1 mi	(314) 252-0892
Accentcare Hospice & Palliative Care Of Missouri	Saint Louis, MO	6.6 mi	(314) 909-6200

Straight-line miles from the center of Lemay. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a dementia caregiver can help with

Keeping a predictable daily routine
Gentle help with bathing, dressing and toileting
Meals, hydration and medication reminders
Calming approaches for sundowning, agitation and repeated questions

Cost

What dementia care costs in Lemay

At the Missouri median aide wage of $15.90 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,378 a month in wages, which is 34% of the $4,006 monthly median income of Lemay households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Missouri's minimum wage is $15.00 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Consumer Directed Services in Missouri: how a relative becomes a paid caregiver.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a dementia caregiver

An estimated 7.2 million Americans aged 65 and older are living with Alzheimer’s dementia, according to the Alzheimer’s Association 2025 Facts and Figures. Most live at home, cared for by family. The Association’s 24/7 Helpline (1-800-272-3900) is free.

Questions worth asking: Tell me about someone with dementia you cared for. What worked? What do you do when a client becomes agitated in the late afternoon? How do you keep someone safe who tries to leave the house? More in our dementia care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Dementia Care in Lemay: common questions

What nursing homes are near Lemay?

The closest Medicare-certified nursing homes are Lemay Nursing in Saint Louis (0.5 mi, 2 of 5 overall); Sherbrooke Village in Saint Louis (1.0 mi, 2 of 5 overall); Bluebird Wellness And Rehabilitation in Saint Louis (2.7 mi, 1 of 5 overall). Ratings are from Medicare Care Compare.

How much does dementia care cost in Lemay?

At the Missouri median aide wage of $15.90 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,378 a month in wages, which is 34% of the $4,006 monthly median income of Lemay households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Missouri's minimum wage is $15.00 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

When does someone with dementia need care at home?

Common signs are missed meals or medication, getting lost in familiar places, unsafe cooking or driving, and a family caregiver who is exhausted. Many families start with a few hours a day and add hours, nights or live-in help as the disease progresses.

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Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

In-Home Dementia and Alzheimer's Care in Lemay, MO