Montauk, New York

In-Home Dementia and Alzheimer's Care in Montauk, NY

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Local figures

Dementia Care in Montauk, NY: the local picture

32
residents 85 or older (0.8% of all residents)
846
residents 65 or older (20% of Montauk)
14%
of residents 65+ report a disability (28% in Suffolk County)
6+
Medicare-certified nursing homes within 25 miles

Montauk has about 32 residents aged 85 or older among 846 aged 65 or older. The risk of Alzheimer’s rises steeply with age, and the Alzheimer’s Association estimates that about a third of people 85 and older have Alzheimer’s dementia.

14% of residents 65 and older report a disability (28% in Suffolk County). The Census counts cognitive difficulty as one kind, alongside hearing, vision, walking, self-care and living independently.

27% of older Montauk residents in households live alone. For someone with memory loss who lives alone, a few hours of daily check-ins are often the first step.

Montauk compared with Suffolk County and New York

Census figureMontaukSuffolk CountyNew York
Residents 85 or older0.8%2.2%2.2%
Residents 65 or older20%18%18%
Residents 65+ with a disability14%28%32%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone27%23%29%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)4.4%7.3%13%
Residents 5+ who speak a language other than English at home12%25%31%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$111,583$87,077—

Older residents in towns around Montauk

TownDistanceResidents 65+Residents 85+
Springs, NY11 mi2,217308
East Hampton North, NY14 mi950115
Northwest Harbor, NY14 mi1,280119
Groton, CT20 mi1,537242
New London, CT21 mi4,148379
Mystic, CT21 mi1,727319

Nursing homes near Montauk

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
Apple Rehab MysticMystic, CT21 mi2 of 560(860) 536-9655
Complete Care At Groton RegencyGroton, CT21 mi5 of 5162(860) 446-9960
Mystic Healthcare & Rehabilitation Center, LLCMystic, CT22 mi1 of 5100(860) 536-6070
Peconic Landing At SouthholdGreenport, NY22 mi5 of 566(631) 477-3800
Civita Care BayviewWaterford, CT22 mi1 of 5127(860) 444-1175
Pendleton Rehabilitation And Nursing CenterMystic, CT22 mi5 of 5120(860) 572-1700

Hospices serving Montauk

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
East End Hospice, IncWesthampton Beach, NY40 mi(631) 288-8400
Nyu Langone Hospital - Suffolk HospicePatchogue, NY58 mi(631) 687-2960
Good Shepherd HospiceFarmingdale, NY81 mi(631) 465-6300

Straight-line miles from the center of Montauk. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a dementia caregiver can help with

  • Keeping a predictable daily routine
  • Gentle help with bathing, dressing and toileting
  • Meals, hydration and medication reminders
  • Calming approaches for sundowning, agitation and repeated questions
Cost

What dementia care costs in Montauk

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 18% of the $9,299 monthly median income of Montauk households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see CDPAP in New York: how to get paid to care for a family member.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a dementia caregiver

An estimated 7.2 million Americans aged 65 and older are living with Alzheimer’s dementia, according to the Alzheimer’s Association 2025 Facts and Figures. Most live at home, cared for by family. The Association’s 24/7 Helpline (1-800-272-3900) is free.

Questions worth asking: Tell me about someone with dementia you cared for. What worked? What do you do when a client becomes agitated in the late afternoon? How do you keep someone safe who tries to leave the house? More in our dementia care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Dementia Care in Montauk: common questions

What nursing homes are near Montauk?

The closest Medicare-certified nursing homes are Apple Rehab Mystic in Mystic (21 mi, 2 of 5 overall); Complete Care At Groton Regency in Groton (21 mi, 5 of 5 overall); Mystic Healthcare & Rehabilitation Center, LLC in Mystic (22 mi, 1 of 5 overall). Ratings are from Medicare Care Compare.

How much does dementia care cost in Montauk?

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 18% of the $9,299 monthly median income of Montauk households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

When does someone with dementia need care at home?

Common signs are missed meals or medication, getting lost in familiar places, unsafe cooking or driving, and a family caregiver who is exhausted. Many families start with a few hours a day and add hours, nights or live-in help as the disease progresses.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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