Pelham, New York

In-Home Dementia and Alzheimer's Care in Pelham, NY

Help at home for someone living with Alzheimer’s or another dementia: steady routines, safety and patience with changes in memory and mood. Post what you need in Pelham for free and hire a caregiver directly, with no agency mark-up.

A younger woman and an older woman looking at a phone together on a park bench
Local figures

Dementia Care in Pelham, NY: the local picture

80
residents 85 or older (1.1% of all residents)
921
residents 65 or older (13% of Pelham)
26%
of residents 65+ report a disability (29% in Westchester County)
6+
Medicare-certified nursing homes within 25 miles

Pelham has about 80 residents aged 85 or older among 921 aged 65 or older. The risk of Alzheimer’s rises steeply with age, and the Alzheimer’s Association estimates that about a third of people 85 and older have Alzheimer’s dementia.

26% of residents 65 and older report a disability (29% in Westchester County). The Census counts cognitive difficulty as one kind, alongside hearing, vision, walking, self-care and living independently.

16% of older Pelham residents in households live alone. For someone with memory loss who lives alone, a few hours of daily check-ins are often the first step.

Pelham compared with Westchester County and New York

Census figurePelhamWestchester CountyNew York
Residents 85 or older1.1%2.7%2.2%
Residents 65 or older13%18%18%
Residents 65+ with a disability26%29%32%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone16%28%29%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)3.7%10%13%
Residents 5+ who speak a language other than English at home26%35%31%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$105,333$80,660—

Older residents in towns around Pelham

TownDistanceResidents 65+Residents 85+
Mount Vernon, NY1.1 mi12,3832,021
Pelham Manor, NY1.2 mi90294
New Rochelle, NY1.7 mi16,4142,198
Bronxville, NY2.2 mi1,051180
Tuckahoe, NY3.0 mi1,251251
Larchmont, NY3.1 mi895123

Nursing homes near Pelham

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
The Wartburg HomeMount Vernon, NY0.6 mi4 of 5210(914) 699-0800
Westchester Center For Rehabilitation & NursingMount Vernon, NY1.0 mi2 of 5240(914) 699-1600
Schaffer Extended Care CenterNew Rochelle, NY1.1 mi1 of 5150(914) 637-1200
Sutton Park Center For Nursing And RehabilitationNew Rochelle, NY1.2 mi3 of 5160(914) 576-0600
Glen Island Center For Nursing And RehabilitationNew Rochelle, NY1.7 mi3 of 5183(914) 636-2800
Dumont Center For Rehabilitation And Nursing CareNew Rochelle, NY1.8 mi3 of 5196(914) 632-9600

Hospices serving Pelham

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Calvary Home Health Agency And Hospice CareBronx, NY4.8 mi(718) 518-2465
Jansen Hospice And Palliative CareWhite Plains, NY11 mi(914) 787-6158
Hospice Of WestchesterWhite Plains, NY11 mi(914) 682-1484
M J H S Hospice And Palliative Care, IncNew York, NY18 mi(212) 420-2844

Straight-line miles from the center of Pelham. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a dementia caregiver can help with

  • Keeping a predictable daily routine
  • Gentle help with bathing, dressing and toileting
  • Meals, hydration and medication reminders
  • Calming approaches for sundowning, agitation and repeated questions
Cost

What dementia care costs in Pelham

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 19% of the $8,778 monthly median income of Pelham households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see CDPAP in New York: how to get paid to care for a family member.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a dementia caregiver

An estimated 7.2 million Americans aged 65 and older are living with Alzheimer’s dementia, according to the Alzheimer’s Association 2025 Facts and Figures. Most live at home, cared for by family. The Association’s 24/7 Helpline (1-800-272-3900) is free.

Questions worth asking: Tell me about someone with dementia you cared for. What worked? What do you do when a client becomes agitated in the late afternoon? How do you keep someone safe who tries to leave the house? More in our dementia care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Dementia Care in Pelham: common questions

What nursing homes are near Pelham?

The closest Medicare-certified nursing homes are The Wartburg Home in Mount Vernon (0.6 mi, 4 of 5 overall); Westchester Center For Rehabilitation & Nursing in Mount Vernon (1.0 mi, 2 of 5 overall); Schaffer Extended Care Center in New Rochelle (1.1 mi, 1 of 5 overall). Ratings are from Medicare Care Compare.

How much does dementia care cost in Pelham?

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 19% of the $8,778 monthly median income of Pelham households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

When does someone with dementia need care at home?

Common signs are missed meals or medication, getting lost in familiar places, unsafe cooking or driving, and a family caregiver who is exhausted. Many families start with a few hours a day and add hours, nights or live-in help as the disease progresses.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

Find dementia care in Pelham

Posting is free and takes about ten minutes. Caregivers near Pelham can see it as soon as it is live.

Create your free family account

Looking for caregiving work instead? Create a free caregiver profile.

A woman on a sofa at home reviewing caregiver profiles on a laptop