Selbyville, Delaware

In-Home Dementia and Alzheimer's Care in Selbyville, DE

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Local figures

Dementia Care in Selbyville, DE: the local picture

112
residents 85 or older (3.6% of all residents)
917
residents 65 or older (30% of Selbyville)
36%
of residents 65+ report a disability (26% in Sussex County)
6+
Medicare-certified nursing homes within 25 miles

Selbyville has about 112 residents aged 85 or older among 917 aged 65 or older. The risk of Alzheimer’s rises steeply with age, and the Alzheimer’s Association estimates that about a third of people 85 and older have Alzheimer’s dementia.

36% of residents 65 and older report a disability (26% in Sussex County). The Census counts cognitive difficulty as one kind, alongside hearing, vision, walking, self-care and living independently.

12% of older Selbyville residents in households live alone. For someone with memory loss who lives alone, a few hours of daily check-ins are often the first step.

Selbyville compared with Sussex County and Delaware

Census figureSelbyvilleSussex CountyDelaware
Residents 85 or older3.6%2.3%2.0%
Residents 65 or older30%30%21%
Residents 65+ with a disability36%26%30%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone12%22%25%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)6.6%6.9%7.6%
Residents 5+ who speak a language other than English at home22%13%15%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$67,656$73,326—

Older residents in towns around Selbyville

TownDistanceResidents 65+Residents 85+
Ocean Pines, MD6.1 mi5,456583
Ocean View, DE6.9 mi1,515172
Ocean City, MD8.6 mi2,154264
Berlin, MD8.9 mi904206
West Ocean City, MD9.4 mi1,189146
Millsboro, DE10 mi1,850162

Nursing homes near Selbyville

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
Berlin Nursing And Rehabilitation CenterBerlin, MD8.5 mi2 of 5165(410) 641-4400
Ocean Grove Post AcuteMillsboro, DE10 mi1 of 5181(302) 934-7300
Cadia Rehabilitation RenaissanceMillsboro, DE12 mi3 of 5130(302) 947-4200
Delaware Bay Rehabilitation And Healthcare CenterGeorgetown, DE19 mi2 of 5139(302) 856-4574
Delmar Nursing & Rehabilitation CenterDelmar, DE20 mi4 of 5109(302) 846-3077
The Moorings At LewesLewes, DE21 mi5 of 540(302) 645-6400

Hospices serving Selbyville

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Coastal Hospice IncSalisbury, MD19 mi(410) 742-8732
Delaware Hospice, Inc Southern DivisionMilford, DE34 mi(302) 856-7717
Compassionate Care Hospice Of The Delmar PeninsulaMilford, DE34 mi(302) 856-2659
Christianacare Accentcare Hosp & Palliative CareNewark, DE88 mi(302) 533-3800

Straight-line miles from the center of Selbyville. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a dementia caregiver can help with

  • Keeping a predictable daily routine
  • Gentle help with bathing, dressing and toileting
  • Meals, hydration and medication reminders
  • Calming approaches for sundowning, agitation and repeated questions
Cost

What dementia care costs in Selbyville

At the Delaware median aide wage of $16.50 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,430 a month in wages, which is 25% of the $5,638 monthly median income of Selbyville households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Delaware's minimum wage is $15.00 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a dementia caregiver

An estimated 7.2 million Americans aged 65 and older are living with Alzheimer’s dementia, according to the Alzheimer’s Association 2025 Facts and Figures. Most live at home, cared for by family. The Association’s 24/7 Helpline (1-800-272-3900) is free.

Questions worth asking: Tell me about someone with dementia you cared for. What worked? What do you do when a client becomes agitated in the late afternoon? How do you keep someone safe who tries to leave the house? More in our dementia care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Dementia Care in Selbyville: common questions

What nursing homes are near Selbyville?

The closest Medicare-certified nursing homes are Berlin Nursing And Rehabilitation Center in Berlin (8.5 mi, 2 of 5 overall); Ocean Grove Post Acute in Millsboro (10 mi, 1 of 5 overall); Cadia Rehabilitation Renaissance in Millsboro (12 mi, 3 of 5 overall). Ratings are from Medicare Care Compare.

How much does dementia care cost in Selbyville?

At the Delaware median aide wage of $16.50 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,430 a month in wages, which is 25% of the $5,638 monthly median income of Selbyville households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Delaware's minimum wage is $15.00 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

When does someone with dementia need care at home?

Common signs are missed meals or medication, getting lost in familiar places, unsafe cooking or driving, and a family caregiver who is exhausted. Many families start with a few hours a day and add hours, nights or live-in help as the disease progresses.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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