Smithtown, New York

In-Home Dementia and Alzheimer's Care in Smithtown, NY

Help at home for someone living with Alzheimer’s or another dementia: steady routines, safety and patience with changes in memory and mood. Post what you need in Smithtown for free and hire a caregiver directly, with no agency mark-up.

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Local figures

Dementia Care in Smithtown, NY: the local picture

1,069
residents 85 or older (4.4% of all residents)
4,640
residents 65 or older (19% of Smithtown)
29%
of residents 65+ report a disability (28% in Suffolk County)
6+
Medicare-certified nursing homes within 25 miles

Smithtown has about 1,069 residents aged 85 or older among 4,640 aged 65 or older. The risk of Alzheimer’s rises steeply with age, and the Alzheimer’s Association estimates that about a third of people 85 and older have Alzheimer’s dementia.

29% of residents 65 and older report a disability (28% in Suffolk County). The Census counts cognitive difficulty as one kind, alongside hearing, vision, walking, self-care and living independently.

20% of older Smithtown residents in households live alone. For someone with memory loss who lives alone, a few hours of daily check-ins are often the first step.

Smithtown compared with Suffolk County and New York

Census figureSmithtownSuffolk CountyNew York
Residents 85 or older4.4%2.2%2.2%
Residents 65 or older19%18%18%
Residents 65+ with a disability29%28%32%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone20%23%29%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)5.6%7.3%13%
Residents 5+ who speak a language other than English at home14%25%31%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$96,250$87,077—

Older residents in towns around Smithtown

TownDistanceResidents 65+Residents 85+
Hauppauge, NY2.4 mi3,940463
Kings Park, NY2.5 mi4,0531,082
Nesconset, NY3.5 mi1,813240
Commack, NY3.6 mi6,1791,146
St. James, NY3.6 mi2,997519
Islandia, NY4.2 mi62347

Nursing homes near Smithtown

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
St Catherine Of Siena Nursing And Rehabilitation CSmithtown, NY1.1 mi3 of 5240(631) 862-3900
Brookside Multicare Nursing CenterSmithtown, NY1.2 mi5 of 5353(631) 724-2200
Smithtown Center For Rehabilitation & Nursing CareSmithtown, NY2.6 mi2 of 5162(631) 361-2020
The Hamlet Rehabilitation And Healthcare Center AtNesconset, NY3.1 mi5 of 5240(631) 361-8800
St Johnland Nursing CenterKings Park, NY3.2 mi1 of 5250(631) 269-5800
St James Rehabilitation & Healthcare CenterSt James, NY4.2 mi4 of 5230(631) 862-8000

Hospices serving Smithtown

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Vns And Hospice Of Suffolk, IncEast Northport, NY5.1 mi(631) 930-9399
Hospice Care Of Long Island, Queens, South ShoreWoodbury, NY14 mi(516) 832-7100
Nyu Langone Hospital - Suffolk HospicePatchogue, NY14 mi(631) 687-2960
Good Shepherd HospiceFarmingdale, NY14 mi(631) 465-6300

Straight-line miles from the center of Smithtown. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a dementia caregiver can help with

  • Keeping a predictable daily routine
  • Gentle help with bathing, dressing and toileting
  • Meals, hydration and medication reminders
  • Calming approaches for sundowning, agitation and repeated questions
Cost

What dementia care costs in Smithtown

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 21% of the $8,021 monthly median income of Smithtown households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see CDPAP in New York: how to get paid to care for a family member.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a dementia caregiver

An estimated 7.2 million Americans aged 65 and older are living with Alzheimer’s dementia, according to the Alzheimer’s Association 2025 Facts and Figures. Most live at home, cared for by family. The Association’s 24/7 Helpline (1-800-272-3900) is free.

Questions worth asking: Tell me about someone with dementia you cared for. What worked? What do you do when a client becomes agitated in the late afternoon? How do you keep someone safe who tries to leave the house? More in our dementia care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Dementia Care in Smithtown: common questions

What nursing homes are near Smithtown?

The closest Medicare-certified nursing homes are St Catherine Of Siena Nursing And Rehabilitation C in Smithtown (1.1 mi, 3 of 5 overall); Brookside Multicare Nursing Center in Smithtown (1.2 mi, 5 of 5 overall); Smithtown Center For Rehabilitation & Nursing Care in Smithtown (2.6 mi, 2 of 5 overall). Ratings are from Medicare Care Compare.

How much does dementia care cost in Smithtown?

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 21% of the $8,021 monthly median income of Smithtown households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

When does someone with dementia need care at home?

Common signs are missed meals or medication, getting lost in familiar places, unsafe cooking or driving, and a family caregiver who is exhausted. Many families start with a few hours a day and add hours, nights or live-in help as the disease progresses.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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