Bethany, Oklahoma

Live-In Caregivers in Bethany, OK

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Local figures

Live-In Caregivers in Bethany, OK: the local picture

429
residents 85 or older (2.1% of all residents)
1,630
households headed by someone 65+ own their home (71%)
60%
of Bethany homes have 3 or more bedrooms (63% in Oklahoma County)
$7.25
Oklahoma minimum wage per hour

About 429 Bethany residents are 85 or older. Live-in care is most often arranged for this age group, when help is needed through the day and someone should be close at night.

A live-in caregiver needs a private room. 60% of homes in Bethany have three or more bedrooms (63% in Oklahoma County), while 14% have one bedroom or none, where live-in care rarely works; the median home has 5 rooms.

Of Bethany households headed by someone 65 or older, 1,630 own their home and 676 rent; among householders 85 and older it is 244 owners and 76 renters. Renters should check that the lease allows another adult to live in before anyone moves in.

Bethany compared with Oklahoma County and Oklahoma

Census figureBethanyOklahoma CountyOklahoma
Residents 85 or older2.1%1.3%1.6%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone29%33%30%
Residents 65+ with a disability37%37%41%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)13%11%11%
Residents 65 or older16%14%16%
Residents 5+ who speak a language other than English at home23%19%12%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$50,662$55,983—

Older residents in towns around Bethany

TownDistanceResidents 65+Residents 85+
Warr Acres, OK1.9 mi1,636322
Nichols Hills, OK6.2 mi74694
The Village, OK6.4 mi1,785312
Yukon, OK7.0 mi4,602500
Oklahoma City, OK7.7 mi94,1158,151
Mustang, OK9.2 mi3,326258

Emergency hospitals near Bethany

Hospital with an emergency departmentTownDistanceCMS overall ratingPhone
The Children's Center, IncBethany, OK0.2 minot rated(405) 789-6711
Integris Baptist Medical Center, IncOklahoma City, OK3.9 mi3 of 5(405) 949-3011
Ssm Health St Anthony Hospital - Oklahoma CityOklahoma City, OK4.6 mi4 of 5(405) 272-7000

Straight-line miles from the center of Bethany. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a live-in caregiver can help with

  • Help across the day: meals, housekeeping, personal care
  • Someone in the home overnight if help is needed
  • Medication reminders and appointment rides
  • Companionship and a steady routine
Cost

What live-in care costs in Bethany

Live-in pay is often agreed by the day or week, but every hour worked counts toward minimum wage. At $13.32 an hour (the Oklahoma median aide wage), a live-in caregiver paid for 50 hours a week costs about $2,886 a month (68% of the $4,222 monthly median income of Bethany households headed by someone 65+). Round-the-clock shift care, 168 paid hours a week across two or three caregivers, comes to about $9,697 a month (230% of the $4,222 monthly median income of Bethany households headed by someone 65+). Private rates are agreed with the caregiver, and overtime rules can add to both. Oklahoma's minimum wage is $7.25 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a live-in caregiver

Put the arrangement in writing: hours on duty, sleep time, days off, the room and pay (federal rules: DOL Fact Sheet 79B).

Questions worth asking: Have you lived in with a client before, and for how long? What days off and sleep time do you need? How do you handle being woken at night? More in our live-in caregivers guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Live-In Caregivers in Bethany: common questions

Where is the nearest emergency hospital to Bethany?

The Children's Center, Inc in Bethany, about 0.2 mi in a straight line from the center of Bethany (Medicare hospital file). Its listed phone number is (405) 789-6711. In an emergency, call 911.

How much does live-in care cost in Bethany?

Live-in pay is often agreed by the day or week, but every hour worked counts toward minimum wage. At $13.32 an hour (the Oklahoma median aide wage), a live-in caregiver paid for 50 hours a week costs about $2,886 a month (68% of the $4,222 monthly median income of Bethany households headed by someone 65+). Round-the-clock shift care, 168 paid hours a week across two or three caregivers, comes to about $9,697 a month (230% of the $4,222 monthly median income of Bethany households headed by someone 65+). Private rates are agreed with the caregiver, and overtime rules can add to both. Oklahoma's minimum wage is $7.25 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Live-in or 24-hour care in Bethany?

A live-in caregiver sleeps in the home and has protected sleep and break time. 24-hour care uses two or three caregivers in shifts so someone is always awake; in Bethany it costs more than three times as much a month (see the cost section above). Choose shifts if help is needed several times a night.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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