Apex, North Carolina

Respite Care in Apex, NC

A few hours, a day or a weekend of cover so the family member doing the caring can rest, work, see a doctor or travel. Post what you need in Apex for free and hire a caregiver directly, with no agency mark-up.

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Local figures

Respite Care in Apex, NC: the local picture

6,696
residents 65 or older (9.5% of Apex)
74%
of residents 65+ in households live with someone, often a family caregiver
25%
of residents 65+ report a disability (28% in Wake County)
16
Medicare-certified hospices serve Apex ZIP codes

Most older adults in Apex live with someone: 74% of residents 65 and older in households do. When one of them needs care, the person they live with usually provides most of it, and respite is what keeps that sustainable.

About 1,644 Apex residents aged 65 or older report a disability (25%) (28% in Wake County). Many of them rely on a spouse or adult child day to day.

Medicare lists 16 hospices serving Apex ZIP codes. For someone on hospice, Medicare also covers short inpatient respite stays so the family caregiver can rest.

Apex compared with Wake County and North Carolina

Census figureApexWake CountyNorth Carolina
Residents 65+ with a disability25%28%33%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone26%25%28%
Residents 65 or older9.5%13%17%
Residents 85 or older0.9%1.3%1.7%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)2.8%8.2%11%
Households with no vehicle2.7%4.4%5.3%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$75,442$72,233—

Older residents in towns around Apex

TownDistanceResidents 65+65+ with a disability
Cary, NC5.0 mi25,34126%
Holly Springs, NC5.5 mi4,04921%
Morrisville, NC8.0 mi2,17437%
Fuquay-Varina, NC11 mi5,80228%
Briar Chapel, NC15 mi1,04315%
Garner, NC15 mi5,64837%

Hospices serving Apex

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Transitions LifecareRaleigh, NC12 mi(919) 828-0890
Duke HospiceDurham, NC13 mi(919) 613-4663
Unc HospiceChapel Hill, NC15 mi(984) 215-2650
Heartland Hospice (Raleigh )Raleigh, NC16 mi(919) 877-9959
Johnston Health Home Care And HospiceSmithfield, NC34 mi(919) 938-7505

Nursing homes near Apex (ask about short stays)

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
Unc Rex Rehab & Nursing Care Center Of ApexApex, NC1.9 mi5 of 5107(919) 363-6011
GlenaireCary, NC6.3 mi5 of 571(919) 460-8095
Highfield Nursing And RehabilitationCary, NC6.5 mi1 of 5120(919) 851-8000
Windsor Point Continuing CareFuquay-Varina, NC9.7 mi5 of 545(919) 552-4580

Straight-line miles from the center of Apex. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a respite caregiver can help with

  • Taking over the usual routine while you are away
  • Meals, medication reminders and personal care
  • Company and activities
  • Overnight cover for a weekend or a trip
Cost

What respite care costs in Apex

At the North Carolina median aide wage of $15.02 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,302 a month in wages, which is 21% of the $6,287 monthly median income of Apex households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. North Carolina's minimum wage is $7.25 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a respite caregiver

Family caregivers carry most long-term care in the U.S., and burnout is a common reason a home arrangement breaks down. The federal National Family Caregiver Support Program funds respite through local Area Agencies on Aging, and the ARCH National Respite Locator lists respite programs by state.

Questions worth asking: Can you do a short paid visit first, while I am home? Are you available at short notice if I am ill? Can you stay overnight, and what do you charge for it? More in our respite care guide.

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Questions

Respite Care in Apex: common questions

Which hospices serve Apex?

Medicare lists 16 hospices for Apex ZIP codes, including Transitions Lifecare, Duke Hospice, Unc Hospice.

How much does respite care cost in Apex?

At the North Carolina median aide wage of $15.02 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,302 a month in wages, which is 21% of the $6,287 monthly median income of Apex households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. North Carolina's minimum wage is $7.25 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Does Medicaid or Medicare pay for respite care?

Medicare pays for short inpatient respite stays only for people on its hospice benefit (Medicare.gov); the hospices on this page serve Apex. Many state Medicaid home and community-based programs, veterans’ programs and the National Family Caregiver Support Program fund respite. Our guide Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states covers North Carolina.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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