Bartlesville, Oklahoma

Respite Care in Bartlesville, OK

A few hours, a day or a weekend of cover so the family member doing the caring can rest, work, see a doctor or travel. Post what you need in Bartlesville for free and hire a caregiver directly, with no agency mark-up.

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Local figures

Respite Care in Bartlesville, OK: the local picture

7,176
residents 65 or older (19% of Bartlesville)
65%
of residents 65+ in households live with someone, often a family caregiver
36%
of residents 65+ report a disability (38% in Washington County)
26
Medicare-certified hospices serve Bartlesville ZIP codes

Most older adults in Bartlesville live with someone: 65% of residents 65 and older in households do. When one of them needs care, the person they live with usually provides most of it, and respite is what keeps that sustainable.

About 2,527 Bartlesville residents aged 65 or older report a disability (36%) (38% in Washington County). Many of them rely on a spouse or adult child day to day.

Medicare lists 26 hospices serving Bartlesville ZIP codes. For someone on hospice, Medicare also covers short inpatient respite stays so the family caregiver can rest.

Bartlesville compared with Washington County and Oklahoma

Census figureBartlesvilleWashington CountyOklahoma
Residents 65+ with a disability36%38%41%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone35%33%30%
Residents 65 or older19%20%16%
Residents 85 or older3.1%2.9%1.6%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)9.3%8.8%11%
Households with no vehicle6.9%5.3%5.6%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$49,743$51,709—

Older residents in towns around Bartlesville

TownDistanceResidents 65+65+ with a disability
Dewey, OK3.7 mi70453%
Nowata, OK17 mi66554%
Pawhuska, OK22 mi53951%
Collinsville, OK26 mi1,12940%
Coffeyville, KS26 mi1,49853%
Skiatook, OK27 mi1,47351%

Hospices serving Bartlesville

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Comforting Hands Hospice, LLCBartlesville, OK1.3 mi(918) 331-0003
Rivercross HealthcareBartlesville, OK1.3 mi(918) 622-9281
Cornerstone Hospice Of TulsaBartlesville, OK2.5 mi(918) 213-4973
Millennium Hospice, IncTulsa, OK41 mi(918) 740-0244
Compassus - OwassoTulsa, OK44 mi(918) 770-7687

Nursing homes near Bartlesville (ask about short stays)

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
Heritage Villa Care & Rehab CenterBartlesville, OK0.9 mi3 of 5100(918) 335-3222
Bartlesville Health And Rehabilitation CommunityBartlesville, OK1.3 mi1 of 5119(918) 333-9545
Ignite Medical Resort Adams ParcBartlesville, OK2.0 mi5 of 592(918) 331-0550
Medicalodges DeweyDewey, OK2.4 mi5 of 558(918) 534-2848

Straight-line miles from the center of Bartlesville. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a respite caregiver can help with

  • Taking over the usual routine while you are away
  • Meals, medication reminders and personal care
  • Company and activities
  • Overnight cover for a weekend or a trip
Cost

What respite care costs in Bartlesville

At the Oklahoma median aide wage of $13.32 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,154 a month in wages, which is 28% of the $4,145 monthly median income of Bartlesville households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Oklahoma's minimum wage is $7.25 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a respite caregiver

Family caregivers carry most long-term care in the U.S., and burnout is a common reason a home arrangement breaks down. The federal National Family Caregiver Support Program funds respite through local Area Agencies on Aging, and the ARCH National Respite Locator lists respite programs by state.

Questions worth asking: Can you do a short paid visit first, while I am home? Are you available at short notice if I am ill? Can you stay overnight, and what do you charge for it? More in our respite care guide.

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Questions

Respite Care in Bartlesville: common questions

Which hospices serve Bartlesville?

Medicare lists 26 hospices for Bartlesville ZIP codes, including Comforting Hands Hospice, LLC, Rivercross Healthcare, Cornerstone Hospice Of Tulsa.

How much does respite care cost in Bartlesville?

At the Oklahoma median aide wage of $13.32 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,154 a month in wages, which is 28% of the $4,145 monthly median income of Bartlesville households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Oklahoma's minimum wage is $7.25 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Does Medicaid or Medicare pay for respite care?

Medicare pays for short inpatient respite stays only for people on its hospice benefit (Medicare.gov); the hospices on this page serve Bartlesville. Many state Medicaid home and community-based programs, veterans’ programs and the National Family Caregiver Support Program fund respite. Our guide Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states covers Oklahoma.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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