Respite Care in Bay Shore, NY: Breaks for Family Caregivers

Local figures

Respite Care in Bay Shore, NY: the local picture

4,026

residents 65 or older (13% of Bay Shore)

64%

of residents 65+ in households live with someone, often a family caregiver

38%

of residents 65+ report a disability (28% in Suffolk County)

6

Medicare-certified hospices serve Bay Shore ZIP codes

Most older adults in Bay Shore live with someone: 64% of residents 65 and older in households do. When one of them needs care, the person they live with usually provides most of it, and respite is what keeps that sustainable.

About 1,498 Bay Shore residents aged 65 or older report a disability (38%) (28% in Suffolk County). Many of them rely on a spouse or adult child day to day.

Medicare lists 6 hospices serving Bay Shore ZIP codes. For someone on hospice, Medicare also covers short inpatient respite stays so the family caregiver can rest.

Bay Shore compared with Suffolk County and New York

Census figure	Bay Shore	Suffolk County	New York
Residents 65+ with a disability	38%	28%	32%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone	36%	23%	29%
Residents 65 or older	13%	18%	18%
Residents 85 or older	1.9%	2.2%	2.2%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)	13%	7.3%	13%
Households with no vehicle	11%	5.1%	29%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+	$54,774	$87,077	—

Older residents in towns around Bay Shore

Town	Distance	Residents 65+	65+ with a disability
Brightwaters, NY	1.1 mi	526	33%
Islip, NY	1.8 mi	3,322	28%
West Bay Shore, NY	2.0 mi	1,296	27%
North Bay Shore, NY	2.2 mi	2,273	37%
Baywood, NY	2.7 mi	809	37%
West Islip, NY	3.0 mi	3,727	23%

Hospices serving Bay Shore

Hospice	Office	Distance	Phone
Vns And Hospice Of Suffolk, Inc	East Northport, NY	9.4 mi	(631) 930-9399
Good Shepherd Hospice	Farmingdale, NY	9.6 mi	(631) 465-6300
Hospice Care Of Long Island, Queens, South Shore	Woodbury, NY	13 mi	(516) 832-7100
Nyu Langone Hospital - Suffolk Hospice	Patchogue, NY	14 mi	(631) 687-2960
East End Hospice, Inc	Westhampton Beach, NY	32 mi	(631) 288-8400

Nursing homes near Bay Shore (ask about short stays)

Nursing home	Town	Distance	CMS overall rating	Certified beds	Phone
Sunrise Manor Center For Nursing And Rehabilitatio	Bay Shore, NY	1.0 mi	2 of 5	84	(631) 665-4960
Maria Regina Rehabilitation And Nursing	Brentwood, NY	3.0 mi	5 of 5	188	(631) 273-4500
Our Lady Of Consolation Nursing And Rehabilitative	West Islip, NY	3.4 mi	2 of 5	450	(631) 587-1600
Ross Center For Nursing And Rehabilitation	Brentwood, NY	3.7 mi	3 of 5	135	(631) 273-4700

Straight-line miles from the center of Bay Shore. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a respite caregiver can help with

Taking over the usual routine while you are away
Meals, medication reminders and personal care
Company and activities
Overnight cover for a weekend or a trip

Cost

What respite care costs in Bay Shore

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 36% of the $4,565 monthly median income of Bay Shore households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see CDPAP in New York: how to get paid to care for a family member.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a respite caregiver

Family caregivers carry most long-term care in the U.S., and burnout is a common reason a home arrangement breaks down. The federal National Family Caregiver Support Program funds respite through local Area Agencies on Aging, and the ARCH National Respite Locator lists respite programs by state.

Questions worth asking: Can you do a short paid visit first, while I am home? Are you available at short notice if I am ill? Can you stay overnight, and what do you charge for it? More in our respite care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Respite Care in Bay Shore: common questions

Which hospices serve Bay Shore?

Medicare lists 6 hospices for Bay Shore ZIP codes, including Vns And Hospice Of Suffolk, Inc, Good Shepherd Hospice, Hospice Care Of Long Island, Queens, South Shore.

How much does respite care cost in Bay Shore?

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 36% of the $4,565 monthly median income of Bay Shore households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Does Medicaid or Medicare pay for respite care?

Medicare pays for short inpatient respite stays only for people on its hospice benefit (Medicare.gov); the hospices on this page serve Bay Shore. Many state Medicaid home and community-based programs, veterans’ programs and the National Family Caregiver Support Program fund respite. Our guide CDPAP in New York: how to get paid to care for a family member covers New York.

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Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

Respite Care in Bay Shore, NY