Cape May, New Jersey

Respite Care in Cape May, NJ

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Local figures

Respite Care in Cape May, NJ: the local picture

921
residents 65 or older (33% of Cape May)
74%
of residents 65+ in households live with someone, often a family caregiver
21%
of residents 65+ report a disability (26% in Cape May County)
13
Medicare-certified hospices serve Cape May ZIP codes

Most older adults in Cape May live with someone: 74% of residents 65 and older in households do. When one of them needs care, the person they live with usually provides most of it, and respite is what keeps that sustainable.

About 189 Cape May residents aged 65 or older report a disability (21%) (26% in Cape May County). Many of them rely on a spouse or adult child day to day.

Medicare lists 13 hospices serving Cape May ZIP codes. For someone on hospice, Medicare also covers short inpatient respite stays so the family caregiver can rest.

Cape May compared with Cape May County and New Jersey

Census figureCape MayCape May CountyNew Jersey
Residents 65+ with a disability21%26%30%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone26%26%27%
Residents 65 or older33%30%17%
Residents 85 or older1.8%2.7%2.1%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)5.0%6.4%9.7%
Households with no vehicle6.0%5.7%11%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$71,985$73,260—

Older residents in towns around Cape May

TownDistanceResidents 65+65+ with a disability
Wildwood Crest, NJ3.9 mi1,36332%
North Cape May, NJ3.9 mi1,19235%
Wildwood, NJ5.4 mi93037%
Rio Grande, NJ5.5 mi85134%
Villas, NJ5.6 mi2,40237%
North Wildwood, NJ7.0 mi1,85520%

Hospices serving Cape May

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Hospice At Lsmnj, Inc.Egg Harbor Township, NJ34 mi(609) 380-4302
Patient Care HospiceEgg Harbor Township, NJ34 mi(609) 407-2020
Holy Redeemer Hospice-NJ, ShoreEgg Harbor Twp, NJ34 mi(609) 761-0300
Angelic HospiceWest Atlantic City, NJ37 mi(609) 822-7979
NJ Health Hospice And Palliative CareVineland, NJ38 mi(856) 696-5340

Nursing homes near Cape May (ask about short stays)

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
North Cape CenterNorth Cape May, NJ2.7 mi3 of 5120(609) 898-8899
Pelican Pointe Post Acute Nursing & RehabilitationNorth Cape May, NJ3.5 mi2 of 5120(609) 898-0677
Complete Care At Court House, LLCCape May Court House, NJ11 mi5 of 5120(609) 465-7171
Crest Haven Nursing And Rehabilitation CenterCape May Court House, NJ12 mi4 of 5180(609) 465-1260

Straight-line miles from the center of Cape May. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a respite caregiver can help with

  • Taking over the usual routine while you are away
  • Meals, medication reminders and personal care
  • Company and activities
  • Overnight cover for a weekend or a trip
Cost

What respite care costs in Cape May

At the New Jersey median aide wage of $17.83 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,545 a month in wages, which is 26% of the $5,999 monthly median income of Cape May households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New Jersey's minimum wage is $15.92 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a respite caregiver

Family caregivers carry most long-term care in the U.S., and burnout is a common reason a home arrangement breaks down. The federal National Family Caregiver Support Program funds respite through local Area Agencies on Aging, and the ARCH National Respite Locator lists respite programs by state.

Questions worth asking: Can you do a short paid visit first, while I am home? Are you available at short notice if I am ill? Can you stay overnight, and what do you charge for it? More in our respite care guide.

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Questions

Respite Care in Cape May: common questions

Which hospices serve Cape May?

Medicare lists 13 hospices for Cape May ZIP codes, including Hospice At Lsmnj, Inc., Patient Care Hospice, Holy Redeemer Hospice-NJ, Shore.

How much does respite care cost in Cape May?

At the New Jersey median aide wage of $17.83 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,545 a month in wages, which is 26% of the $5,999 monthly median income of Cape May households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New Jersey's minimum wage is $15.92 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Does Medicaid or Medicare pay for respite care?

Medicare pays for short inpatient respite stays only for people on its hospice benefit (Medicare.gov); the hospices on this page serve Cape May. Many state Medicaid home and community-based programs, veterans’ programs and the National Family Caregiver Support Program fund respite. Our guide Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states covers New Jersey.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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