Cary, Illinois

Respite Care in Cary, IL

A few hours, a day or a weekend of cover so the family member doing the caring can rest, work, see a doctor or travel. Post what you need in Cary for free and hire a caregiver directly, with no agency mark-up.

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Local figures

Respite Care in Cary, IL: the local picture

2,457
residents 65 or older (14% of Cary)
78%
of residents 65+ in households live with someone, often a family caregiver
22%
of residents 65+ report a disability (28% in McHenry County)
19
Medicare-certified hospices serve Cary ZIP codes

Most older adults in Cary live with someone: 78% of residents 65 and older in households do. When one of them needs care, the person they live with usually provides most of it, and respite is what keeps that sustainable.

About 522 Cary residents aged 65 or older report a disability (22%) (28% in McHenry County). Many of them rely on a spouse or adult child day to day.

Medicare lists 19 hospices serving Cary ZIP codes. For someone on hospice, Medicare also covers short inpatient respite stays so the family caregiver can rest.

Cary compared with McHenry County and Illinois

Census figureCaryMcHenry CountyIllinois
Residents 65+ with a disability22%28%32%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone22%25%30%
Residents 65 or older14%16%17%
Residents 85 or older1.1%1.6%2.0%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)6.9%6.0%10%
Households with no vehicle2.8%3.5%11%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$71,611$70,816—

Older residents in towns around Cary

TownDistanceResidents 65+65+ with a disability
Fox River Grove, IL2.1 mi63733%
Lake in the Hills, IL4.1 mi2,88421%
Lake Barrington, IL4.1 mi1,79725%
Crystal Lake, IL4.6 mi6,05325%
Algonquin, IL5.2 mi4,50232%
Island Lake, IL5.2 mi1,11125%

Hospices serving Cary

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Journeycare - BarringtonBarrington, IL6.7 mi(847) 381-5599
Lifechoice Hospice And Palliative CarePalatine, IL13 mi(847) 777-8888
Heartland Hospice (Northbrook)Buffalo Grove, IL15 mi(847) 272-7338
Meridian Palliative & Hospice Care Services LLCRolling Meadows, IL15 mi(847) 543-7550
Alexian Brothers HospiceHanover Park, IL16 mi(847) 685-9900

Nursing homes near Cary (ask about short stays)

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
Pearl Of Crystal Lake, TheCrystal Lake, IL4.2 mi5 of 597(815) 477-6569
Fair Oaks Health Care CenterCrystal Lake, IL5.2 mi3 of 551(815) 455-0550
Alta Rehab At WaucondaWauconda, IL6.0 mi5 of 5149(847) 526-5551
Crystal Pines Rehab & HccCrystal Lake, IL6.3 mi1 of 5110(815) 459-7791

Straight-line miles from the center of Cary. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a respite caregiver can help with

  • Taking over the usual routine while you are away
  • Meals, medication reminders and personal care
  • Company and activities
  • Overnight cover for a weekend or a trip
Cost

What respite care costs in Cary

At the Illinois median aide wage of $18.30 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,586 a month in wages, which is 27% of the $5,968 monthly median income of Cary households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Illinois's minimum wage is $15.00 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a respite caregiver

Family caregivers carry most long-term care in the U.S., and burnout is a common reason a home arrangement breaks down. The federal National Family Caregiver Support Program funds respite through local Area Agencies on Aging, and the ARCH National Respite Locator lists respite programs by state.

Questions worth asking: Can you do a short paid visit first, while I am home? Are you available at short notice if I am ill? Can you stay overnight, and what do you charge for it? More in our respite care guide.

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Questions

Respite Care in Cary: common questions

Which hospices serve Cary?

Medicare lists 19 hospices for Cary ZIP codes, including Journeycare - Barrington, Lifechoice Hospice And Palliative Care, Heartland Hospice (Northbrook).

How much does respite care cost in Cary?

At the Illinois median aide wage of $18.30 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,586 a month in wages, which is 27% of the $5,968 monthly median income of Cary households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Illinois's minimum wage is $15.00 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Does Medicaid or Medicare pay for respite care?

Medicare pays for short inpatient respite stays only for people on its hospice benefit (Medicare.gov); the hospices on this page serve Cary. Many state Medicaid home and community-based programs, veterans’ programs and the National Family Caregiver Support Program fund respite. Our guide Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states covers Illinois.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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