Holbrook, New York

Respite Care in Holbrook, NY

A few hours, a day or a weekend of cover so the family member doing the caring can rest, work, see a doctor or travel. Post what you need in Holbrook for free and hire a caregiver directly, with no agency mark-up.

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Local figures

Respite Care in Holbrook, NY: the local picture

4,527
residents 65 or older (17% of Holbrook)
84%
of residents 65+ in households live with someone, often a family caregiver
26%
of residents 65+ report a disability (28% in Suffolk County)
5
Medicare-certified hospices serve Holbrook ZIP codes

Most older adults in Holbrook live with someone: 84% of residents 65 and older in households do. When one of them needs care, the person they live with usually provides most of it, and respite is what keeps that sustainable.

About 1,188 Holbrook residents aged 65 or older report a disability (26%) (28% in Suffolk County). Many of them rely on a spouse or adult child day to day.

Medicare lists 5 hospices serving Holbrook ZIP codes. For someone on hospice, Medicare also covers short inpatient respite stays so the family caregiver can rest.

Holbrook compared with Suffolk County and New York

Census figureHolbrookSuffolk CountyNew York
Residents 65+ with a disability26%28%32%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone16%23%29%
Residents 65 or older17%18%18%
Residents 85 or older1.2%2.2%2.2%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)4.7%7.3%13%
Households with no vehicle3.8%5.1%29%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$103,783$87,077—

Older residents in towns around Holbrook

TownDistanceResidents 65+65+ with a disability
Holtsville, NY1.8 mi2,78032%
North Patchogue, NY2.5 mi84416%
Ronkonkoma, NY2.9 mi2,56033%
Sayville, NY3.3 mi3,33127%
Lake Ronkonkoma, NY3.4 mi3,37834%
Patchogue, NY3.4 mi1,73333%

Hospices serving Holbrook

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Nyu Langone Hospital - Suffolk HospicePatchogue, NY4.9 mi(631) 687-2960
Vns And Hospice Of Suffolk, IncEast Northport, NY14 mi(631) 930-9399
Good Shepherd HospiceFarmingdale, NY20 mi(631) 465-6300
Hospice Care Of Long Island, Queens, South ShoreWoodbury, NY21 mi(516) 832-7100
East End Hospice, IncWesthampton Beach, NY22 mi(631) 288-8400

Nursing homes near Holbrook (ask about short stays)

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
Sayville Nursing And Rehabilitation CenterSayville, NY2.1 mi5 of 5180(631) 567-9300
Island Nursing And Rehab CenterHoltsville, NY3.1 mi4 of 5120(631) 758-3336
Affinity Skilled Living And Rehabilitation CenterOakdale, NY4.2 mi2 of 5280(631) 218-5900
Swan Lake Nursing And RehabilitationPatchogue, NY4.3 mi2 of 5120(631) 289-7700

Straight-line miles from the center of Holbrook. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a respite caregiver can help with

  • Taking over the usual routine while you are away
  • Meals, medication reminders and personal care
  • Company and activities
  • Overnight cover for a weekend or a trip
Cost

What respite care costs in Holbrook

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 19% of the $8,649 monthly median income of Holbrook households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see CDPAP in New York: how to get paid to care for a family member.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a respite caregiver

Family caregivers carry most long-term care in the U.S., and burnout is a common reason a home arrangement breaks down. The federal National Family Caregiver Support Program funds respite through local Area Agencies on Aging, and the ARCH National Respite Locator lists respite programs by state.

Questions worth asking: Can you do a short paid visit first, while I am home? Are you available at short notice if I am ill? Can you stay overnight, and what do you charge for it? More in our respite care guide.

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Questions

Respite Care in Holbrook: common questions

Which hospices serve Holbrook?

Medicare lists 5 hospices for Holbrook ZIP codes, including Nyu Langone Hospital - Suffolk Hospice, Vns And Hospice Of Suffolk, Inc, Good Shepherd Hospice.

How much does respite care cost in Holbrook?

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 19% of the $8,649 monthly median income of Holbrook households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Does Medicaid or Medicare pay for respite care?

Medicare pays for short inpatient respite stays only for people on its hospice benefit (Medicare.gov); the hospices on this page serve Holbrook. Many state Medicaid home and community-based programs, veterans’ programs and the National Family Caregiver Support Program fund respite. Our guide CDPAP in New York: how to get paid to care for a family member covers New York.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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