Honolulu, Hawaii

Respite Care in Honolulu, HI

A few hours, a day or a weekend of cover so the family member doing the caring can rest, work, see a doctor or travel. Post what you need in Honolulu for free and hire a caregiver directly, with no agency mark-up.

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Local figures

Respite Care in Honolulu, HI: the local picture

75,965
residents 65 or older (22% of Honolulu)
73%
of residents 65+ in households live with someone, often a family caregiver
32%
of residents 65+ report a disability (33% in Honolulu County)
9
Medicare-certified hospices serve Honolulu ZIP codes

Most older adults in Honolulu live with someone: 73% of residents 65 and older in households do. When one of them needs care, the person they live with usually provides most of it, and respite is what keeps that sustainable.

About 23,761 Honolulu residents aged 65 or older report a disability (32%) (33% in Honolulu County). Many of them rely on a spouse or adult child day to day.

Medicare lists 9 hospices serving Honolulu ZIP codes. For someone on hospice, Medicare also covers short inpatient respite stays so the family caregiver can rest.

Honolulu compared with Honolulu County and Hawaii

Census figureHonoluluHonolulu CountyHawaii
Residents 65+ with a disability32%33%32%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone27%19%20%
Residents 65 or older22%20%20%
Residents 85 or older3.5%3.0%2.8%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)12%9.0%9.2%
Households with no vehicle17%9.7%8.2%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$76,241$94,383—

Older residents in towns around Honolulu

TownDistanceResidents 65+65+ with a disability
Halawa, HI5.8 mi3,56235%
Aiea, HI6.5 mi2,30735%
Heeia, HI6.9 mi1,29927%
Hickam Housing, HI6.9 mi12028%
Kaneohe, HI7.0 mi9,61231%
Waimalu, HI7.2 mi3,18124%

Hospices serving Honolulu

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Bristol Hospice - Hawaii, LLCHonolulu, HI0.5 mi(808) 536-8012
Islands HospiceHonolulu, HI0.5 mi(808) 550-2552
St Francis HospiceHonolulu, HI1.0 mi(808) 595-7566
Navian HawaiiHonolulu, HI1.0 mi(808) 924-9255
Kaiser Permanente Care At Home, Oahu HospiceHonolulu, HI2.5 mi(808) 432-7660

Nursing homes near Honolulu (ask about short stays)

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
The Care Center Of HonoluluHonolulu, HI0.2 mi3 of 5182(808) 531-5302
15 CraigsideHonolulu, HI0.2 mi5 of 545(808) 523-7000
The Ching VillasHonolulu, HI0.3 mi4 of 5163(808) 547-6000
Kuakini Geriatric Care, IncHonolulu, HI0.8 mi1 of 5187(808) 547-9357

Straight-line miles from the center of Honolulu. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a respite caregiver can help with

  • Taking over the usual routine while you are away
  • Meals, medication reminders and personal care
  • Company and activities
  • Overnight cover for a weekend or a trip
Cost

What respite care costs in Honolulu

At the Hawaii median aide wage of $18.32 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,588 a month in wages, which is 25% of the $6,353 monthly median income of Honolulu households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Hawaii's minimum wage is $16.00 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a respite caregiver

Family caregivers carry most long-term care in the U.S., and burnout is a common reason a home arrangement breaks down. The federal National Family Caregiver Support Program funds respite through local Area Agencies on Aging, and the ARCH National Respite Locator lists respite programs by state.

Questions worth asking: Can you do a short paid visit first, while I am home? Are you available at short notice if I am ill? Can you stay overnight, and what do you charge for it? More in our respite care guide.

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Questions

Respite Care in Honolulu: common questions

Which hospices serve Honolulu?

Medicare lists 9 hospices for Honolulu ZIP codes, including Bristol Hospice - Hawaii, LLC, Islands Hospice, St Francis Hospice.

How much does respite care cost in Honolulu?

At the Hawaii median aide wage of $18.32 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,588 a month in wages, which is 25% of the $6,353 monthly median income of Honolulu households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Hawaii's minimum wage is $16.00 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Does Medicaid or Medicare pay for respite care?

Medicare pays for short inpatient respite stays only for people on its hospice benefit (Medicare.gov); the hospices on this page serve Honolulu. Many state Medicaid home and community-based programs, veterans’ programs and the National Family Caregiver Support Program fund respite. Our guide Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states covers Hawaii.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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