Respite Care in Honolulu, HI
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Respite Care in Honolulu, HI: the local picture
Most older adults in Honolulu live with someone: 73% of residents 65 and older in households do. When one of them needs care, the person they live with usually provides most of it, and respite is what keeps that sustainable.
About 23,761 Honolulu residents aged 65 or older report a disability (32%) (33% in Honolulu County). Many of them rely on a spouse or adult child day to day.
Medicare lists 9 hospices serving Honolulu ZIP codes. For someone on hospice, Medicare also covers short inpatient respite stays so the family caregiver can rest.
Honolulu compared with Honolulu County and Hawaii
| Census figure | Honolulu | Honolulu County | Hawaii |
|---|---|---|---|
| Residents 65+ with a disability | 32% | 33% | 32% |
| Residents 65+ in households who live alone | 27% | 19% | 20% |
| Residents 65 or older | 22% | 20% | 20% |
| Residents 85 or older | 3.5% | 3.0% | 2.8% |
| Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.) | 12% | 9.0% | 9.2% |
| Households with no vehicle | 17% | 9.7% | 8.2% |
| Median income, households headed by someone 65+ | $76,241 | $94,383 | — |
Older residents in towns around Honolulu
| Town | Distance | Residents 65+ | 65+ with a disability |
|---|---|---|---|
| Halawa, HI | 5.8 mi | 3,562 | 35% |
| Aiea, HI | 6.5 mi | 2,307 | 35% |
| Heeia, HI | 6.9 mi | 1,299 | 27% |
| Hickam Housing, HI | 6.9 mi | 120 | 28% |
| Kaneohe, HI | 7.0 mi | 9,612 | 31% |
| Waimalu, HI | 7.2 mi | 3,181 | 24% |
Hospices serving Honolulu
| Hospice | Office | Distance | Phone |
|---|---|---|---|
| Bristol Hospice - Hawaii, LLC | Honolulu, HI | 0.5 mi | (808) 536-8012 |
| Islands Hospice | Honolulu, HI | 0.5 mi | (808) 550-2552 |
| St Francis Hospice | Honolulu, HI | 1.0 mi | (808) 595-7566 |
| Navian Hawaii | Honolulu, HI | 1.0 mi | (808) 924-9255 |
| Kaiser Permanente Care At Home, Oahu Hospice | Honolulu, HI | 2.5 mi | (808) 432-7660 |
Nursing homes near Honolulu (ask about short stays)
| Nursing home | Town | Distance | CMS overall rating | Certified beds | Phone |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| The Care Center Of Honolulu | Honolulu, HI | 0.2 mi | 3 of 5 | 182 | (808) 531-5302 |
| 15 Craigside | Honolulu, HI | 0.2 mi | 5 of 5 | 45 | (808) 523-7000 |
| The Ching Villas | Honolulu, HI | 0.3 mi | 4 of 5 | 163 | (808) 547-6000 |
| Kuakini Geriatric Care, Inc | Honolulu, HI | 0.8 mi | 1 of 5 | 187 | (808) 547-9357 |
Straight-line miles from the center of Honolulu. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.
What a respite caregiver can help with
- Taking over the usual routine while you are away
- Meals, medication reminders and personal care
- Company and activities
- Overnight cover for a weekend or a trip
What respite care costs in Honolulu
At the Hawaii median aide wage of $18.32 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,588 a month in wages, which is 25% of the $6,353 monthly median income of Honolulu households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Hawaii's minimum wage is $16.00 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).
Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states.
What to know before hiring a respite caregiver
Family caregivers carry most long-term care in the U.S., and burnout is a common reason a home arrangement breaks down. The federal National Family Caregiver Support Program funds respite through local Area Agencies on Aging, and the ARCH National Respite Locator lists respite programs by state.
Questions worth asking: Can you do a short paid visit first, while I am home? Are you available at short notice if I am ill? Can you stay overnight, and what do you charge for it? More in our respite care guide.
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Respite Care in Honolulu: common questions
Which hospices serve Honolulu?
Medicare lists 9 hospices for Honolulu ZIP codes, including Bristol Hospice - Hawaii, LLC, Islands Hospice, St Francis Hospice.
How much does respite care cost in Honolulu?
At the Hawaii median aide wage of $18.32 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,588 a month in wages, which is 25% of the $6,353 monthly median income of Honolulu households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Hawaii's minimum wage is $16.00 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).
Does Medicaid or Medicare pay for respite care?
Medicare pays for short inpatient respite stays only for people on its hospice benefit (Medicare.gov); the hospices on this page serve Honolulu. Many state Medicaid home and community-based programs, veterans’ programs and the National Family Caregiver Support Program fund respite. Our guide Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states covers Hawaii.
More senior care near Honolulu
Respite Care in nearby cities
- Respite Care in Halawa, HI
- Respite Care in Aiea, HI
- Respite Care in Heeia, HI
- Respite Care in Hickam Housing, HI
- Respite Care in Kaneohe, HI
- Respite Care in Waimalu, HI
- Respite Care in Waimanalo, HI
- Respite Care in Ahuimanu, HI
- Respite Care in Iroquois Point, HI
- Respite Care in East Honolulu, HI
- Respite Care in Kailua, HI
- Respite Care in Pearl City, HI
- Respite Care in Kahaluu, HI
- Respite Care in Waimanalo Beach, HI
- Respite Care in Ewa Beach, HI
- Respite Care in Kaneohe Base, HI
Other care in Honolulu
Sources
Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.
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