Respite Care in Melville, NY: Breaks for Family Caregivers

Local figures

Respite Care in Melville, NY: the local picture

5,671

residents 65 or older (29% of Melville)

71%

of residents 65+ in households live with someone, often a family caregiver

30%

of residents 65+ report a disability (28% in Suffolk County)

6

Medicare-certified hospices serve Melville ZIP codes

Most older adults in Melville live with someone: 71% of residents 65 and older in households do. When one of them needs care, the person they live with usually provides most of it, and respite is what keeps that sustainable.

About 1,650 Melville residents aged 65 or older report a disability (30%) (28% in Suffolk County). Many of them rely on a spouse or adult child day to day.

Medicare lists 6 hospices serving Melville ZIP codes. For someone on hospice, Medicare also covers short inpatient respite stays so the family caregiver can rest.

Melville compared with Suffolk County and New York

Census figure	Melville	Suffolk County	New York
Residents 65+ with a disability	30%	28%	32%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone	29%	23%	29%
Residents 65 or older	29%	18%	18%
Residents 85 or older	6.7%	2.2%	2.2%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)	4.3%	7.3%	13%
Households with no vehicle	6.4%	5.1%	29%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+	$93,780	$87,077	—

Older residents in towns around Melville

Town	Distance	Residents 65+	65+ with a disability
Wheatley Heights, NY	2.4 mi	642	43%
South Huntington, NY	2.9 mi	1,856	39%
West Hills, NY	2.9 mi	1,129	18%
East Farmingdale, NY	3.2 mi	868	30%
Plainview, NY	3.4 mi	5,941	23%
Old Bethpage, NY	3.4 mi	1,601	26%

Hospices serving Melville

Hospice	Office	Distance	Phone
Good Shepherd Hospice	Farmingdale, NY	3.7 mi	(631) 465-6300
Hospice Care Of Long Island, Queens, South Shore	Woodbury, NY	4.0 mi	(516) 832-7100
Vns And Hospice Of Suffolk, Inc	East Northport, NY	7.1 mi	(631) 930-9399
Nyu Langone Hospital - Suffolk Hospice	Patchogue, NY	22 mi	(631) 687-2960
Hospice Of New York, LLC	Long Island City, NY	28 mi	(718) 472-1999

Nursing homes near Melville (ask about short stays)

Nursing home	Town	Distance	CMS overall rating	Certified beds	Phone
Huntington Hills Center For Health And Rehabilitat	Melville, NY	1.5 mi	4 of 5	320	(631) 439-3000
Apex Rehabilitation & Care Center	Huntington Station, NY	3.2 mi	3 of 5	195	(631) 423-3200
White Oaks Rehabilitation And Nursing Center	Woodbury, NY	3.6 mi	3 of 5	200	(516) 367-3400
Excel At Woodbury For Rehabilitation And Nursing,	Woodbury, NY	3.7 mi	5 of 5	123	(516) 692-4100

Straight-line miles from the center of Melville. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a respite caregiver can help with

Taking over the usual routine while you are away
Meals, medication reminders and personal care
Company and activities
Overnight cover for a weekend or a trip

Cost

What respite care costs in Melville

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 21% of the $7,815 monthly median income of Melville households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see CDPAP in New York: how to get paid to care for a family member.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a respite caregiver

Family caregivers carry most long-term care in the U.S., and burnout is a common reason a home arrangement breaks down. The federal National Family Caregiver Support Program funds respite through local Area Agencies on Aging, and the ARCH National Respite Locator lists respite programs by state.

Questions worth asking: Can you do a short paid visit first, while I am home? Are you available at short notice if I am ill? Can you stay overnight, and what do you charge for it? More in our respite care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Respite Care in Melville: common questions

Which hospices serve Melville?

Medicare lists 6 hospices for Melville ZIP codes, including Good Shepherd Hospice, Hospice Care Of Long Island, Queens, South Shore, Vns And Hospice Of Suffolk, Inc.

How much does respite care cost in Melville?

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 21% of the $7,815 monthly median income of Melville households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Does Medicaid or Medicare pay for respite care?

Medicare pays for short inpatient respite stays only for people on its hospice benefit (Medicare.gov); the hospices on this page serve Melville. Many state Medicaid home and community-based programs, veterans’ programs and the National Family Caregiver Support Program fund respite. Our guide CDPAP in New York: how to get paid to care for a family member covers New York.

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Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

Respite Care in Melville, NY