North Merrick, New York

Respite Care in North Merrick, NY

A few hours, a day or a weekend of cover so the family member doing the caring can rest, work, see a doctor or travel. Post what you need in North Merrick for free and hire a caregiver directly, with no agency mark-up.

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Local figures

Respite Care in North Merrick, NY: the local picture

2,497
residents 65 or older (20% of North Merrick)
81%
of residents 65+ in households live with someone, often a family caregiver
23%
of residents 65+ report a disability (27% in Nassau County)
7
Medicare-certified hospices serve North Merrick ZIP codes

Most older adults in North Merrick live with someone: 81% of residents 65 and older in households do. When one of them needs care, the person they live with usually provides most of it, and respite is what keeps that sustainable.

About 585 North Merrick residents aged 65 or older report a disability (23%) (27% in Nassau County). Many of them rely on a spouse or adult child day to day.

Medicare lists 7 hospices serving North Merrick ZIP codes. For someone on hospice, Medicare also covers short inpatient respite stays so the family caregiver can rest.

North Merrick compared with Nassau County and New York

Census figureNorth MerrickNassau CountyNew York
Residents 65+ with a disability23%27%32%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone19%20%29%
Residents 65 or older20%19%18%
Residents 85 or older2.7%2.6%2.2%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)2.9%6.7%13%
Households with no vehicle3.1%6.8%29%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$87,098$100,301—

Older residents in towns around North Merrick

TownDistanceResidents 65+65+ with a disability
North Bellmore, NY1.1 mi3,44124%
Roosevelt, NY1.3 mi1,96530%
East Meadow, NY2.2 mi8,01030%
North Wantagh, NY2.3 mi2,54022%
Merrick, NY2.5 mi3,99121%
Bellmore, NY2.6 mi2,42834%

Hospices serving North Merrick

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Good Shepherd HospiceFarmingdale, NY7.3 mi(631) 465-6300
Hospice Care Of Long Island, Queens, South ShoreWoodbury, NY9.9 mi(516) 832-7100
Vns And Hospice Of Suffolk, IncEast Northport, NY17 mi(631) 930-9399
Calvary Home Health Agency And Hospice CareBronx, NY18 mi(718) 518-2465
Hospice Of New York, LLCLong Island City, NY20 mi(718) 472-1999

Nursing homes near North Merrick (ask about short stays)

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
Belair Care Center IncBellmore, NY1.0 mi5 of 5102(516) 826-1160
A Holly Patterson Extended Care FacilityUniondale, NY1.3 mi1 of 5589(516) 572-1400
Fulton Commons Care Center IncEast Meadow, NY2.4 mi2 of 5280(516) 222-9300
Hempstead Park Nursing HomeHempstead, NY2.7 mi2 of 5251(516) 705-9700

Straight-line miles from the center of North Merrick. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a respite caregiver can help with

  • Taking over the usual routine while you are away
  • Meals, medication reminders and personal care
  • Company and activities
  • Overnight cover for a weekend or a trip
Cost

What respite care costs in North Merrick

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 23% of the $7,258 monthly median income of North Merrick households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see CDPAP in New York: how to get paid to care for a family member.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a respite caregiver

Family caregivers carry most long-term care in the U.S., and burnout is a common reason a home arrangement breaks down. The federal National Family Caregiver Support Program funds respite through local Area Agencies on Aging, and the ARCH National Respite Locator lists respite programs by state.

Questions worth asking: Can you do a short paid visit first, while I am home? Are you available at short notice if I am ill? Can you stay overnight, and what do you charge for it? More in our respite care guide.

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Questions

Respite Care in North Merrick: common questions

Which hospices serve North Merrick?

Medicare lists 7 hospices for North Merrick ZIP codes, including Good Shepherd Hospice, Hospice Care Of Long Island, Queens, South Shore, Vns And Hospice Of Suffolk, Inc.

How much does respite care cost in North Merrick?

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 23% of the $7,258 monthly median income of North Merrick households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Does Medicaid or Medicare pay for respite care?

Medicare pays for short inpatient respite stays only for people on its hospice benefit (Medicare.gov); the hospices on this page serve North Merrick. Many state Medicaid home and community-based programs, veterans’ programs and the National Family Caregiver Support Program fund respite. Our guide CDPAP in New York: how to get paid to care for a family member covers New York.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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