Southern Shores, North Carolina

Respite Care in Southern Shores, NC

A few hours, a day or a weekend of cover so the family member doing the caring can rest, work, see a doctor or travel. Post what you need in Southern Shores for free and hire a caregiver directly, with no agency mark-up.

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Local figures

Respite Care in Southern Shores, NC: the local picture

996
residents 65 or older (32% of Southern Shores)
81%
of residents 65+ in households live with someone, often a family caregiver
35%
of residents 65+ report a disability (26% in Dare County)
4
Medicare-certified hospices serve Southern Shores ZIP codes

Most older adults in Southern Shores live with someone: 81% of residents 65 and older in households do. When one of them needs care, the person they live with usually provides most of it, and respite is what keeps that sustainable.

About 347 Southern Shores residents aged 65 or older report a disability (35%) (26% in Dare County). Many of them rely on a spouse or adult child day to day.

Medicare lists 4 hospices serving Southern Shores ZIP codes. For someone on hospice, Medicare also covers short inpatient respite stays so the family caregiver can rest.

Southern Shores compared with Dare County and North Carolina

Census figureSouthern ShoresDare CountyNorth Carolina
Residents 65+ with a disability35%26%33%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone19%29%28%
Residents 65 or older32%25%17%
Residents 85 or older2.6%2.0%1.7%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)0.0%5.9%11%
Households with no vehicle4.6%2.7%5.3%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$116,786$70,567—

Older residents in towns around Southern Shores

TownDistanceResidents 65+65+ with a disability
Kitty Hawk, NC3.3 mi74424%
Kill Devil Hills, NC7.7 mi1,47128%
Nags Head, NC13 mi1,26414%
Elizabeth City, NC31 mi3,50736%
Moyock, NC36 mi71738%
Edenton, NC49 mi1,25425%

Hospices serving Southern Shores

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Adoration Home Health And HospiceNags Head, NC18 mi(252) 263-5800
Albemarle Home Care And HospiceElizabeth City, NC31 mi(252) 338-4066
Amedisys Hospice CarePlymouth, NC59 mi(252) 791-0490
Community Hospice LLCNew Bern, NC104 mi(252) 672-8301

Nursing homes near Southern Shores (ask about short stays)

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
Peak Resources-Outer BanksNags Head, NC11 mi3 of 5126(252) 441-3116
Currituck Health & Rehab CenterBarco, NC23 mi1 of 5100(252) 457-0500

Straight-line miles from the center of Southern Shores. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a respite caregiver can help with

  • Taking over the usual routine while you are away
  • Meals, medication reminders and personal care
  • Company and activities
  • Overnight cover for a weekend or a trip
Cost

What respite care costs in Southern Shores

At the North Carolina median aide wage of $15.02 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,302 a month in wages, which is 13% of the $9,732 monthly median income of Southern Shores households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. North Carolina's minimum wage is $7.25 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a respite caregiver

Family caregivers carry most long-term care in the U.S., and burnout is a common reason a home arrangement breaks down. The federal National Family Caregiver Support Program funds respite through local Area Agencies on Aging, and the ARCH National Respite Locator lists respite programs by state.

Questions worth asking: Can you do a short paid visit first, while I am home? Are you available at short notice if I am ill? Can you stay overnight, and what do you charge for it? More in our respite care guide.

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Questions

Respite Care in Southern Shores: common questions

Which hospices serve Southern Shores?

Medicare lists 4 hospices for Southern Shores ZIP codes, including Adoration Home Health And Hospice, Albemarle Home Care And Hospice, Amedisys Hospice Care.

How much does respite care cost in Southern Shores?

At the North Carolina median aide wage of $15.02 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,302 a month in wages, which is 13% of the $9,732 monthly median income of Southern Shores households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. North Carolina's minimum wage is $7.25 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Does Medicaid or Medicare pay for respite care?

Medicare pays for short inpatient respite stays only for people on its hospice benefit (Medicare.gov); the hospices on this page serve Southern Shores. Many state Medicaid home and community-based programs, veterans’ programs and the National Family Caregiver Support Program fund respite. Our guide Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states covers North Carolina.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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