Durham, Connecticut

In-Home Care for Veterans in Durham, CT

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Local figures

Veterans’ Home Care in Durham, CT: the local picture

72
veterans aged 65 or older (11% of residents 65+)
639
residents 65 or older (19% of Durham)
23%
of residents 65+ report a disability (27% in Lower Connecticut River Valley Planning Region)
12%
of residents 65+ in households live alone (28% in Lower Connecticut River Valley Planning Region)

About 72 Durham residents aged 65 or older are veterans (11% of that age group; 13% in Lower Connecticut River Valley Planning Region), out of 181 veterans of all adult ages in town.

23% of all residents 65 and older report a disability (27% in Lower Connecticut River Valley Planning Region); ask the VA whether a veteran’s needs qualify for its home care programs before you hire privately.

Durham compared with Lower Connecticut River Valley Planning Region and Connecticut

Census figureDurhamLower Connecticut River Valley Planning RegionConnecticut
Residents 65+ who are veterans11%13%12%
Residents 65+ with a disability23%27%29%
Residents 65 or older19%22%19%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone12%28%29%
Residents 65+ with serious difficulty walking19%15%18%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)4.2%6.3%8.8%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$120,923$74,885—

Older residents in towns around Durham

TownDistanceResidents 65+Veterans (65+)
Middletown, CT5.7 mi7,93212%
Wallingford Center, CT7.1 mi3,89115%
Northford, CT7.2 mi1,52017%
Meriden, CT7.4 mi9,78211%
Portland, CT8.2 mi1,14721%
North Haven, CT11 mi5,43910%

Hospitals near Durham

Hospital with an emergency departmentTownDistanceCMS overall ratingPhone
Middlesex HospitalMiddletown, CT6.2 mi3 of 5(860) 344-6000
Midstate Medical CenterMeriden, CT7.4 mi4 of 5(203) 694-8200
Yale-New Haven HospitalNew Haven, CT15 mi5 of 5(203) 688-4242

Straight-line miles from the center of Durham. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a caregiver for a veteran can help with

  • Company and help around the house
  • Personal care: bathing, dressing, toileting
  • Rides to VA and other appointments
  • Meals and medication reminders
Cost

What veterans’ home care costs in Durham

At the Connecticut median aide wage of $18.75 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,625 a month in wages, which is 16% of the $10,077 monthly median income of Durham households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Connecticut's minimum wage is $16.94 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a caregiver for a veteran

The VA’s Homemaker and Home Health Aide program sends a trained aide, supervised by a registered nurse, to help eligible veterans with daily activities at home. The Aid and Attendance benefit adds monthly payments to a VA pension for veterans who need help with daily activities. The VA Caregiver Support Line is 1-855-260-3274.

Questions worth asking: Have you cared for veterans before? Can you drive to the VA medical center or clinic? Are you comfortable with the paperwork VA programs need? More in our veterans’ home care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Veterans’ Home Care in Durham: common questions

How much does veterans’ home care cost in Durham?

At the Connecticut median aide wage of $18.75 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,625 a month in wages, which is 16% of the $10,077 monthly median income of Durham households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Connecticut's minimum wage is $16.94 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Does the VA pay for in-home care?

For eligible veterans, VA programs such as Homemaker and Home Health Aide care can provide help at home, and Aid and Attendance can add to a VA pension. Ask the VA about eligibility; the Caregiver Support Line is 1-855-260-3274 (caregiver.va.gov).

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Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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