Veterans' Home Care in Southold, NY: Caregivers for Veterans

Local figures

Veterans’ Home Care in Southold, NY: the local picture

214

veterans aged 65 or older (13% of residents 65+)

1,588

residents 65 or older (25% of Southold)

28%

of residents 65+ report a disability (28% in Suffolk County)

18%

of residents 65+ in households live alone (23% in Suffolk County)

About 214 Southold residents aged 65 or older are veterans (13% of that age group; 11% in Suffolk County), out of 277 veterans of all adult ages in town.

28% of all residents 65 and older report a disability (28% in Suffolk County); ask the VA whether a veteran’s needs qualify for its home care programs before you hire privately.

Southold compared with Suffolk County and New York

Census figure	Southold	Suffolk County	New York
Residents 65+ who are veterans	13%	11%	9.0%
Residents 65+ with a disability	28%	28%	32%
Residents 65 or older	25%	18%	18%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone	18%	23%	29%
Residents 65+ with serious difficulty walking	13%	18%	21%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)	6.2%	7.3%	13%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+	$105,441	$87,077	—

Older residents in towns around Southold

Town	Distance	Residents 65+	Veterans (65+)
Greenport, NY	4.2 mi	593	7.6%
Cutchogue, NY	4.3 mi	951	26%
Mattituck, NY	7.2 mi	1,339	19%
Noyack, NY	7.4 mi	1,307	17%
North Sea, NY	9.3 mi	1,677	6.1%
Water Mill, NY	11 mi	626	4.5%

Hospitals near Southold

Hospital with an emergency department	Town	Distance	CMS overall rating	Phone
Peconic Bay Medical Center	Riverhead, NY	15 mi	2 of 5	(631) 548-6000
Lawrence & Memorial Hospital	New London, CT	26 mi	3 of 5	(860) 442-0711
West Haven Va Medical Center	West Haven, CT	31 mi	3 of 5	(203) 932-5711

Straight-line miles from the center of Southold. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a caregiver for a veteran can help with

Company and help around the house
Personal care: bathing, dressing, toileting
Rides to VA and other appointments
Meals and medication reminders

Cost

What veterans’ home care costs in Southold

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 19% of the $8,787 monthly median income of Southold households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see CDPAP in New York: how to get paid to care for a family member.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a caregiver for a veteran

The VA’s Homemaker and Home Health Aide program sends a trained aide, supervised by a registered nurse, to help eligible veterans with daily activities at home. The Aid and Attendance benefit adds monthly payments to a VA pension for veterans who need help with daily activities. The VA Caregiver Support Line is 1-855-260-3274.

Questions worth asking: Have you cared for veterans before? Can you drive to the VA medical center or clinic? Are you comfortable with the paperwork VA programs need? More in our veterans’ home care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Veterans’ Home Care in Southold: common questions

How much does veterans’ home care cost in Southold?

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 19% of the $8,787 monthly median income of Southold households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Does the VA pay for in-home care?

For eligible veterans, VA programs such as Homemaker and Home Health Aide care can provide help at home, and Aid and Attendance can add to a VA pension. Ask the VA about eligibility; the Caregiver Support Line is 1-855-260-3274 (caregiver.va.gov).

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Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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