Elsmere, Delaware

In-Home Dementia and Alzheimer's Care in Elsmere, DE

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Local figures

Dementia Care in Elsmere, DE: the local picture

124
residents 85 or older (2.0% of all residents)
774
residents 65 or older (12% of Elsmere)
37%
of residents 65+ report a disability (31% in New Castle County)
6+
Medicare-certified nursing homes within 25 miles

Elsmere has about 124 residents aged 85 or older among 774 aged 65 or older. The risk of Alzheimer’s rises steeply with age, and the Alzheimer’s Association estimates that about a third of people 85 and older have Alzheimer’s dementia.

37% of residents 65 and older report a disability (31% in New Castle County). The Census counts cognitive difficulty as one kind, alongside hearing, vision, walking, self-care and living independently.

33% of older Elsmere residents in households live alone. For someone with memory loss who lives alone, a few hours of daily check-ins are often the first step.

Elsmere compared with New Castle County and Delaware

Census figureElsmereNew Castle CountyDelaware
Residents 85 or older2.0%1.9%2.0%
Residents 65 or older12%17%21%
Residents 65+ with a disability37%31%30%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone33%28%25%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)15%7.8%7.6%
Residents 5+ who speak a language other than English at home23%17%15%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$43,672$68,907—

Older residents in towns around Elsmere

TownDistanceResidents 65+Residents 85+
Greenville, DE2.6 mi98887
Wilmington, DE3.3 mi11,0831,201
Wilmington Manor, DE3.7 mi1,602141
Edgemoor, DE4.8 mi983104
New Castle, DE5.0 mi1,279130
Pike Creek, DE5.4 mi1,41978

Nursing homes near Elsmere

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
Excelcare At Wilmington LLCWilmington, DE1.3 mi3 of 5150(302) 655-6135
Complete Care At Hillside LLCWilmington, DE1.3 mi4 of 5106(302) 652-1181
Regency Healthcare & Rehab CenterWilmington, DE1.8 mi2 of 5100(302) 654-8400
Coral Springs Rehab & HealthcareWilmington, DE2.0 mi2 of 5169(302) 998-0101
Gilpin HallWilmington, DE2.3 mi3 of 596(302) 654-4486
Kentmere Rehabilitation And Healthcare CenterWilmington, DE2.4 mi3 of 5104(302) 652-3311

Hospices serving Elsmere

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Bayada HospiceWilmington, DE0.7 mi(302) 351-3633
Compassionate Care HospiceNewport, DE2.0 mi(302) 993-9090
Christianacare Accentcare Hosp & Palliative CareNewark, DE8.0 mi(302) 533-3800
Heartland HospiceNewark, DE8.0 mi(302) 737-7080

Straight-line miles from the center of Elsmere. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a dementia caregiver can help with

  • Keeping a predictable daily routine
  • Gentle help with bathing, dressing and toileting
  • Meals, hydration and medication reminders
  • Calming approaches for sundowning, agitation and repeated questions
Cost

What dementia care costs in Elsmere

At the Delaware median aide wage of $16.50 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,430 a month in wages, which is 39% of the $3,639 monthly median income of Elsmere households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Delaware's minimum wage is $15.00 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a dementia caregiver

An estimated 7.2 million Americans aged 65 and older are living with Alzheimer’s dementia, according to the Alzheimer’s Association 2025 Facts and Figures. Most live at home, cared for by family. The Association’s 24/7 Helpline (1-800-272-3900) is free.

Questions worth asking: Tell me about someone with dementia you cared for. What worked? What do you do when a client becomes agitated in the late afternoon? How do you keep someone safe who tries to leave the house? More in our dementia care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Dementia Care in Elsmere: common questions

What nursing homes are near Elsmere?

The closest Medicare-certified nursing homes are Excelcare At Wilmington LLC in Wilmington (1.3 mi, 3 of 5 overall); Complete Care At Hillside LLC in Wilmington (1.3 mi, 4 of 5 overall); Regency Healthcare & Rehab Center in Wilmington (1.8 mi, 2 of 5 overall). Ratings are from Medicare Care Compare.

How much does dementia care cost in Elsmere?

At the Delaware median aide wage of $16.50 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,430 a month in wages, which is 39% of the $3,639 monthly median income of Elsmere households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Delaware's minimum wage is $15.00 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

When does someone with dementia need care at home?

Common signs are missed meals or medication, getting lost in familiar places, unsafe cooking or driving, and a family caregiver who is exhausted. Many families start with a few hours a day and add hours, nights or live-in help as the disease progresses.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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