Elsmere, Delaware

Respite Care in Elsmere, DE

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Local figures

Respite Care in Elsmere, DE: the local picture

774
residents 65 or older (12% of Elsmere)
67%
of residents 65+ in households live with someone, often a family caregiver
37%
of residents 65+ report a disability (31% in New Castle County)
10
Medicare-certified hospices serve Elsmere ZIP codes

Most older adults in Elsmere live with someone: 67% of residents 65 and older in households do. When one of them needs care, the person they live with usually provides most of it, and respite is what keeps that sustainable.

About 286 Elsmere residents aged 65 or older report a disability (37%) (31% in New Castle County). Many of them rely on a spouse or adult child day to day.

Medicare lists 10 hospices serving Elsmere ZIP codes. For someone on hospice, Medicare also covers short inpatient respite stays so the family caregiver can rest.

Elsmere compared with New Castle County and Delaware

Census figureElsmereNew Castle CountyDelaware
Residents 65+ with a disability37%31%30%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone33%28%25%
Residents 65 or older12%17%21%
Residents 85 or older2.0%1.9%2.0%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)15%7.8%7.6%
Households with no vehicle4.6%7.5%6.2%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$43,672$68,907—

Older residents in towns around Elsmere

TownDistanceResidents 65+65+ with a disability
Greenville, DE2.6 mi98816%
Wilmington, DE3.3 mi11,08336%
Wilmington Manor, DE3.7 mi1,60232%
Edgemoor, DE4.8 mi98339%
New Castle, DE5.0 mi1,27939%
Pike Creek, DE5.4 mi1,41924%

Hospices serving Elsmere

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Bayada HospiceWilmington, DE0.7 mi(302) 351-3633
Compassionate Care HospiceNewport, DE2.0 mi(302) 993-9090
Christianacare Accentcare Hosp & Palliative CareNewark, DE8.0 mi(302) 533-3800
Heartland HospiceNewark, DE8.0 mi(302) 737-7080
Vitas Healthcare Corporation AtlanticNewark, DE8.0 mi(302) 451-4000

Nursing homes near Elsmere (ask about short stays)

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
Excelcare At Wilmington LLCWilmington, DE1.3 mi3 of 5150(302) 655-6135
Complete Care At Hillside LLCWilmington, DE1.3 mi4 of 5106(302) 652-1181
Regency Healthcare & Rehab CenterWilmington, DE1.8 mi2 of 5100(302) 654-8400
Coral Springs Rehab & HealthcareWilmington, DE2.0 mi2 of 5169(302) 998-0101

Straight-line miles from the center of Elsmere. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a respite caregiver can help with

  • Taking over the usual routine while you are away
  • Meals, medication reminders and personal care
  • Company and activities
  • Overnight cover for a weekend or a trip
Cost

What respite care costs in Elsmere

At the Delaware median aide wage of $16.50 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,430 a month in wages, which is 39% of the $3,639 monthly median income of Elsmere households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Delaware's minimum wage is $15.00 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a respite caregiver

Family caregivers carry most long-term care in the U.S., and burnout is a common reason a home arrangement breaks down. The federal National Family Caregiver Support Program funds respite through local Area Agencies on Aging, and the ARCH National Respite Locator lists respite programs by state.

Questions worth asking: Can you do a short paid visit first, while I am home? Are you available at short notice if I am ill? Can you stay overnight, and what do you charge for it? More in our respite care guide.

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Questions

Respite Care in Elsmere: common questions

Which hospices serve Elsmere?

Medicare lists 10 hospices for Elsmere ZIP codes, including Bayada Hospice, Compassionate Care Hospice, Christianacare Accentcare Hosp & Palliative Care.

How much does respite care cost in Elsmere?

At the Delaware median aide wage of $16.50 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,430 a month in wages, which is 39% of the $3,639 monthly median income of Elsmere households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Delaware's minimum wage is $15.00 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Does Medicaid or Medicare pay for respite care?

Medicare pays for short inpatient respite stays only for people on its hospice benefit (Medicare.gov); the hospices on this page serve Elsmere. Many state Medicaid home and community-based programs, veterans’ programs and the National Family Caregiver Support Program fund respite. Our guide Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states covers Delaware.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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