San Diego, California

In-Home Dementia and Alzheimer's Care in San Diego, CA

Help at home for someone living with Alzheimer’s or another dementia: steady routines, safety and patience with changes in memory and mood. Post what you need in San Diego for free and hire a caregiver directly, with no agency mark-up.

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Local figures

Dementia Care in San Diego, CA: the local picture

24,168
residents 85 or older (1.7% of all residents)
203,132
residents 65 or older (15% of San Diego)
31%
of residents 65+ report a disability (31% in San Diego County)
6+
Medicare-certified nursing homes within 25 miles

San Diego has about 24,168 residents aged 85 or older among 203,132 aged 65 or older. The risk of Alzheimer’s rises steeply with age, and the Alzheimer’s Association estimates that about a third of people 85 and older have Alzheimer’s dementia.

31% of residents 65 and older report a disability (31% in San Diego County). The Census counts cognitive difficulty as one kind, alongside hearing, vision, walking, self-care and living independently.

24% of older San Diego residents in households live alone. For someone with memory loss who lives alone, a few hours of daily check-ins are often the first step.

San Diego compared with San Diego County and California

Census figureSan DiegoSan Diego CountyCalifornia
Residents 85 or older1.7%1.8%1.9%
Residents 65 or older15%15%16%
Residents 65+ with a disability31%31%33%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone24%22%23%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)10%9.5%12%
Residents 5+ who speak a language other than English at home39%37%44%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$80,124$78,324—

Older residents in towns around San Diego

TownDistanceResidents 65+Residents 85+
La Mesa, CA7.3 mi9,4371,282
Lemon Grove, CA8.2 mi4,042376
Santee, CA9.1 mi9,812828
El Cajon, CA10 mi15,1611,603
Casa de Oro-Mount Helix, CA10 mi4,223569
La Presa, CA10 mi5,288765

Nursing homes near San Diego

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
Helen Bernardy Center D/P SNFSan Diego, CA1.3 mi5 of 543(858) 966-5833
The Shores Post-AcuteSan Diego, CA1.7 mi3 of 5305(858) 277-6460
Kearny Mesa Convalescent And Nursing HomeSan Diego, CA2.2 mi5 of 598(858) 278-8121
Hillcrest Heights Healthcare CenterSan Diego, CA4.9 mi5 of 596(619) 297-4086
Mission Hills Post Acute CareSan Diego, CA5.2 mi4 of 575(619) 297-4484
Balboa Nursing & Rehabilitation CenterSan Diego, CA5.3 mi4 of 5194(619) 291-5270

Hospices serving San Diego

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Suncrest Hospice San DiegoSan Diego, CA1.2 mi(818) 434-2414
Bristol Hospice - San DiegoSan Diego, CA1.2 mi(888) 976-0396
Blessed Hospice California IncSan Diego, CA1.2 mi(858) 430-6656
Anchor Hospice & Palliative CareSan Diego, CA1.2 mi(714) 463-6528

Straight-line miles from the center of San Diego. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a dementia caregiver can help with

  • Keeping a predictable daily routine
  • Gentle help with bathing, dressing and toileting
  • Meals, hydration and medication reminders
  • Calming approaches for sundowning, agitation and repeated questions
Cost

What dementia care costs in San Diego

At the California minimum wage of $16.90 an hour (the May 2025 median aide wage, $16.50, is now below it), 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,465 a month in wages, which is 22% of the $6,677 monthly median income of San Diego households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. California's minimum wage is $16.90 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see How to get paid to care for a family member in California: IHSS, VA, Paid Family Leave.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a dementia caregiver

An estimated 7.2 million Americans aged 65 and older are living with Alzheimer’s dementia, according to the Alzheimer’s Association 2025 Facts and Figures. Most live at home, cared for by family. The Association’s 24/7 Helpline (1-800-272-3900) is free.

Questions worth asking: Tell me about someone with dementia you cared for. What worked? What do you do when a client becomes agitated in the late afternoon? How do you keep someone safe who tries to leave the house? More in our dementia care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Dementia Care in San Diego: common questions

What nursing homes are near San Diego?

The closest Medicare-certified nursing homes are Helen Bernardy Center D/P SNF in San Diego (1.3 mi, 5 of 5 overall); The Shores Post-Acute in San Diego (1.7 mi, 3 of 5 overall); Kearny Mesa Convalescent And Nursing Home in San Diego (2.2 mi, 5 of 5 overall). Ratings are from Medicare Care Compare.

How much does dementia care cost in San Diego?

At the California minimum wage of $16.90 an hour (the May 2025 median aide wage, $16.50, is now below it), 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,465 a month in wages, which is 22% of the $6,677 monthly median income of San Diego households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. California's minimum wage is $16.90 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

When does someone with dementia need care at home?

Common signs are missed meals or medication, getting lost in familiar places, unsafe cooking or driving, and a family caregiver who is exhausted. Many families start with a few hours a day and add hours, nights or live-in help as the disease progresses.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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