South Toms River, New Jersey

In-Home Dementia and Alzheimer's Care in South Toms River, NJ

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Local figures

Dementia Care in South Toms River, NJ: the local picture

19
residents 85 or older (0.5% of all residents)
289
residents 65 or older (7.8% of South Toms River)
27%
of residents 65+ report a disability (31% in Ocean County)
6+
Medicare-certified nursing homes within 25 miles

South Toms River has about 19 residents aged 85 or older among 289 aged 65 or older. The risk of Alzheimer’s rises steeply with age, and the Alzheimer’s Association estimates that about a third of people 85 and older have Alzheimer’s dementia.

27% of residents 65 and older report a disability (31% in Ocean County). The Census counts cognitive difficulty as one kind, alongside hearing, vision, walking, self-care and living independently.

17% of older South Toms River residents in households live alone. For someone with memory loss who lives alone, a few hours of daily check-ins are often the first step.

South Toms River compared with Ocean County and New Jersey

Census figureSouth Toms RiverOcean CountyNew Jersey
Residents 85 or older0.5%3.1%2.1%
Residents 65 or older7.8%23%17%
Residents 65+ with a disability27%31%30%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone17%30%27%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)7.3%8.3%9.7%
Residents 5+ who speak a language other than English at home26%13%33%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$79,500$62,752—

Older residents in towns around South Toms River

TownDistanceResidents 65+Residents 85+
Beachwood, NJ0.8 mi2,182146
Holiday City South, NJ1.9 mi2,808435
Toms River, NJ4.0 mi18,9612,474
Holiday City-Berkeley, NJ4.2 mi8,9581,516
Pine Lake Park, NJ5.1 mi1,290152
Pine Ridge at Crestwood, NJ5.8 mi1,762162

Nursing homes near South Toms River

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
Community Medical Center TcuToms River, NJ2.5 mi5 of 525(732) 557-8000
Complete Care At Holiday CityToms River, NJ2.7 mi3 of 5180(732) 240-0900
Crystal Lake Healthcare And RehabilitationBayville, NJ3.1 minot rated235(732) 269-0500
Complete Care At Bey Lea, LLCToms River, NJ3.6 mi4 of 5120(732) 240-0090
Tallwoods Care CenterBayville, NJ4.2 mi3 of 5180(732) 237-2220
Rose Garden Nursing And Rehabilitation CenterToms River, NJ4.4 mi2 of 5128(732) 505-4477

Hospices serving South Toms River

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Vna Of Central Jersey Home Care & HospiceToms River, NJ3.8 mi(732) 818-6800
Holisticare Hospice Of New Jersey, LLCToms River, NJ4.3 mi(844) 254-4400
Affinity Care Of NJ, LLCBrick, NJ8.6 mi(732) 800-9494
Swan HospiceLakewood, NJ10 mi(908) 818-1700

Straight-line miles from the center of South Toms River. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a dementia caregiver can help with

  • Keeping a predictable daily routine
  • Gentle help with bathing, dressing and toileting
  • Meals, hydration and medication reminders
  • Calming approaches for sundowning, agitation and repeated questions
Cost

What dementia care costs in South Toms River

At the New Jersey median aide wage of $17.83 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,545 a month in wages, which is 23% of the $6,625 monthly median income of South Toms River households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New Jersey's minimum wage is $15.92 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a dementia caregiver

An estimated 7.2 million Americans aged 65 and older are living with Alzheimer’s dementia, according to the Alzheimer’s Association 2025 Facts and Figures. Most live at home, cared for by family. The Association’s 24/7 Helpline (1-800-272-3900) is free.

Questions worth asking: Tell me about someone with dementia you cared for. What worked? What do you do when a client becomes agitated in the late afternoon? How do you keep someone safe who tries to leave the house? More in our dementia care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Dementia Care in South Toms River: common questions

What nursing homes are near South Toms River?

The closest Medicare-certified nursing homes are Community Medical Center Tcu in Toms River (2.5 mi, 5 of 5 overall); Complete Care At Holiday City in Toms River (2.7 mi, 3 of 5 overall); Crystal Lake Healthcare And Rehabilitation in Bayville (3.1 mi, not rated overall). Ratings are from Medicare Care Compare.

How much does dementia care cost in South Toms River?

At the New Jersey median aide wage of $17.83 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,545 a month in wages, which is 23% of the $6,625 monthly median income of South Toms River households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New Jersey's minimum wage is $15.92 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

When does someone with dementia need care at home?

Common signs are missed meals or medication, getting lost in familiar places, unsafe cooking or driving, and a family caregiver who is exhausted. Many families start with a few hours a day and add hours, nights or live-in help as the disease progresses.

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Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year (small-place figures carry wide margins of error); CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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