South Toms River, New Jersey

Respite Care in South Toms River, NJ

A few hours, a day or a weekend of cover so the family member doing the caring can rest, work, see a doctor or travel. Post what you need in South Toms River for free and hire a caregiver directly, with no agency mark-up.

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Local figures

Respite Care in South Toms River, NJ: the local picture

289
residents 65 or older (7.8% of South Toms River)
83%
of residents 65+ in households live with someone, often a family caregiver
27%
of residents 65+ report a disability (31% in Ocean County)
17
Medicare-certified hospices serve South Toms River ZIP codes

Most older adults in South Toms River live with someone: 83% of residents 65 and older in households do. When one of them needs care, the person they live with usually provides most of it, and respite is what keeps that sustainable.

About 77 South Toms River residents aged 65 or older report a disability (27%) (31% in Ocean County). Many of them rely on a spouse or adult child day to day.

Medicare lists 17 hospices serving South Toms River ZIP codes. For someone on hospice, Medicare also covers short inpatient respite stays so the family caregiver can rest.

South Toms River compared with Ocean County and New Jersey

Census figureSouth Toms RiverOcean CountyNew Jersey
Residents 65+ with a disability27%31%30%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone17%30%27%
Residents 65 or older7.8%23%17%
Residents 85 or older0.5%3.1%2.1%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)7.3%8.3%9.7%
Households with no vehicle3.2%6.0%11%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$79,500$62,752—

Older residents in towns around South Toms River

TownDistanceResidents 65+65+ with a disability
Beachwood, NJ0.8 mi2,18222%
Holiday City South, NJ1.9 mi2,80834%
Toms River, NJ4.0 mi18,96132%
Holiday City-Berkeley, NJ4.2 mi8,95839%
Pine Lake Park, NJ5.1 mi1,29040%
Pine Ridge at Crestwood, NJ5.8 mi1,76236%

Hospices serving South Toms River

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Vna Of Central Jersey Home Care & HospiceToms River, NJ3.8 mi(732) 818-6800
Holisticare Hospice Of New Jersey, LLCToms River, NJ4.3 mi(844) 254-4400
Affinity Care Of NJ, LLCBrick, NJ8.6 mi(732) 800-9494
Swan HospiceLakewood, NJ10 mi(908) 818-1700
Hackensack Meridian HospiceNeptune, NJ20 mi(732) 751-3750

Nursing homes near South Toms River (ask about short stays)

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
Community Medical Center TcuToms River, NJ2.5 mi5 of 525(732) 557-8000
Complete Care At Holiday CityToms River, NJ2.7 mi3 of 5180(732) 240-0900
Crystal Lake Healthcare And RehabilitationBayville, NJ3.1 minot rated235(732) 269-0500
Complete Care At Bey Lea, LLCToms River, NJ3.6 mi4 of 5120(732) 240-0090

Straight-line miles from the center of South Toms River. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a respite caregiver can help with

  • Taking over the usual routine while you are away
  • Meals, medication reminders and personal care
  • Company and activities
  • Overnight cover for a weekend or a trip
Cost

What respite care costs in South Toms River

At the New Jersey median aide wage of $17.83 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,545 a month in wages, which is 23% of the $6,625 monthly median income of South Toms River households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New Jersey's minimum wage is $15.92 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a respite caregiver

Family caregivers carry most long-term care in the U.S., and burnout is a common reason a home arrangement breaks down. The federal National Family Caregiver Support Program funds respite through local Area Agencies on Aging, and the ARCH National Respite Locator lists respite programs by state.

Questions worth asking: Can you do a short paid visit first, while I am home? Are you available at short notice if I am ill? Can you stay overnight, and what do you charge for it? More in our respite care guide.

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Questions

Respite Care in South Toms River: common questions

Which hospices serve South Toms River?

Medicare lists 17 hospices for South Toms River ZIP codes, including Vna Of Central Jersey Home Care & Hospice, Holisticare Hospice Of New Jersey, LLC, Affinity Care Of NJ, LLC.

How much does respite care cost in South Toms River?

At the New Jersey median aide wage of $17.83 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,545 a month in wages, which is 23% of the $6,625 monthly median income of South Toms River households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New Jersey's minimum wage is $15.92 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Does Medicaid or Medicare pay for respite care?

Medicare pays for short inpatient respite stays only for people on its hospice benefit (Medicare.gov); the hospices on this page serve South Toms River. Many state Medicaid home and community-based programs, veterans’ programs and the National Family Caregiver Support Program fund respite. Our guide Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states covers New Jersey.

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Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year (small-place figures carry wide margins of error); CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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