Rome, New York

Live-In Caregivers in Rome, NY

A caregiver who lives in the home, for someone who needs help across the day and a person nearby at night. Post what you need in Rome for free and hire a caregiver directly, with no agency mark-up.

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Local figures

Live-In Caregivers in Rome, NY: the local picture

720
residents 85 or older (2.3% of all residents)
2,882
households headed by someone 65+ own their home (70%)
55%
of Rome homes have 3 or more bedrooms (66% in Oneida County)
$17.00
top New York minimum wage tier per hour

About 720 Rome residents are 85 or older. Live-in care is most often arranged for this age group, when help is needed through the day and someone should be close at night.

A live-in caregiver needs a private room. 55% of homes in Rome have three or more bedrooms (66% in Oneida County), while 17% have one bedroom or none, where live-in care rarely works; the median home has 5.5 rooms.

Of Rome households headed by someone 65 or older, 2,882 own their home and 1,249 rent; among householders 85 and older it is 368 owners and 87 renters. Renters should check that the lease allows another adult to live in before anyone moves in.

Rome compared with Oneida County and New York

Census figureRomeOneida CountyNew York
Residents 85 or older2.3%2.4%2.2%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone37%34%29%
Residents 65+ with a disability37%32%32%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)12%11%13%
Residents 65 or older20%20%18%
Residents 5+ who speak a language other than English at home7.1%13%31%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$45,854$53,780—

Older residents in towns around Rome

TownDistanceResidents 65+Residents 85+
Lake Delta, NY4.3 mi96763
Whitesboro, NY12 mi44718
Sherrill, NY12 mi81970
New York Mills, NY13 mi91773
Yorkville, NY13 mi50872
Oneida, NY14 mi2,137264

Emergency hospitals near Rome

Hospital with an emergency departmentTownDistanceCMS overall ratingPhone
Rome Memorial Hospital, IncRome, NY2.1 mi2 of 5(315) 338-7000
Oneida Health HospitalOneida, NY13 mi2 of 5(315) 363-6000
Mohawk Valley Psychiatric CenterUtica, NY15 minot rated(315) 797-6800

Straight-line miles from the center of Rome. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a live-in caregiver can help with

  • Help across the day: meals, housekeeping, personal care
  • Someone in the home overnight if help is needed
  • Medication reminders and appointment rides
  • Companionship and a steady routine
Cost

What live-in care costs in Rome

Live-in pay is often agreed by the day or week, but every hour worked counts toward minimum wage. At $19.05 an hour (the New York median aide wage), a live-in caregiver paid for 50 hours a week costs about $4,128 a month (108% of the $3,821 monthly median income of Rome households headed by someone 65+). Round-the-clock shift care, 168 paid hours a week across two or three caregivers, comes to about $13,868 a month (363% of the $3,821 monthly median income of Rome households headed by someone 65+). Private rates are agreed with the caregiver, and overtime rules can add to both. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see CDPAP in New York: how to get paid to care for a family member.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a live-in caregiver

Put the arrangement in writing: hours on duty, sleep time, days off, the room and pay (federal rules: DOL Fact Sheet 79B).

Questions worth asking: Have you lived in with a client before, and for how long? What days off and sleep time do you need? How do you handle being woken at night? More in our live-in caregivers guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Live-In Caregivers in Rome: common questions

Where is the nearest emergency hospital to Rome?

Rome Memorial Hospital, Inc in Rome, about 2.1 mi in a straight line from the center of Rome (Medicare hospital file). Its listed phone number is (315) 338-7000. In an emergency, call 911.

How much does live-in care cost in Rome?

Live-in pay is often agreed by the day or week, but every hour worked counts toward minimum wage. At $19.05 an hour (the New York median aide wage), a live-in caregiver paid for 50 hours a week costs about $4,128 a month (108% of the $3,821 monthly median income of Rome households headed by someone 65+). Round-the-clock shift care, 168 paid hours a week across two or three caregivers, comes to about $13,868 a month (363% of the $3,821 monthly median income of Rome households headed by someone 65+). Private rates are agreed with the caregiver, and overtime rules can add to both. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Live-in or 24-hour care in Rome?

A live-in caregiver sleeps in the home and has protected sleep and break time. 24-hour care uses two or three caregivers in shifts so someone is always awake; in Rome it costs more than three times as much a month (see the cost section above). Choose shifts if help is needed several times a night.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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