Respite Care in Rome, NY: Breaks for Family Caregivers

Local figures

Respite Care in Rome, NY: the local picture

6,290

residents 65 or older (20% of Rome)

63%

of residents 65+ in households live with someone, often a family caregiver

37%

of residents 65+ report a disability (32% in Oneida County)

2

Medicare-certified hospices serve Rome ZIP codes

Most older adults in Rome live with someone: 63% of residents 65 and older in households do. When one of them needs care, the person they live with usually provides most of it, and respite is what keeps that sustainable.

About 2,182 Rome residents aged 65 or older report a disability (37%) (32% in Oneida County). Many of them rely on a spouse or adult child day to day.

Medicare lists 2 hospices serving Rome ZIP codes. For someone on hospice, Medicare also covers short inpatient respite stays so the family caregiver can rest.

Rome compared with Oneida County and New York

Census figure	Rome	Oneida County	New York
Residents 65+ with a disability	37%	32%	32%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone	37%	34%	29%
Residents 65 or older	20%	20%	18%
Residents 85 or older	2.3%	2.4%	2.2%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)	12%	11%	13%
Households with no vehicle	18%	12%	29%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+	$45,854	$53,780	—

Older residents in towns around Rome

Town	Distance	Residents 65+	65+ with a disability
Lake Delta, NY	4.3 mi	967	28%
Whitesboro, NY	12 mi	447	39%
Sherrill, NY	12 mi	819	24%
New York Mills, NY	13 mi	917	24%
Yorkville, NY	13 mi	508	32%
Oneida, NY	14 mi	2,137	24%

Hospices serving Rome

Hospice	Office	Distance	Phone
Hospice And Palliative Care Inc New Hartford	New Hartford, NY	15 mi	(315) 735-6484
Lewis County General Hospital Hospice	Lowville, NY	39 mi	(315) 376-5308

Nursing homes near Rome (ask about short stays)

Nursing home	Town	Distance	CMS overall rating	Certified beds	Phone
Betsy Ross Rehabilitation Center, Inc	Rome, NY	1.3 mi	1 of 5	120	(315) 339-2220
The Grand Rehabilitation And Nursing At Rome	Rome, NY	2.0 mi	1 of 5	160	(315) 337-0550
Bethany Gardens Skilled Living Center	Rome, NY	2.0 mi	4 of 5	100	(315) 339-3210
Rome Memorial Hospital, Inc - R H C F	Rome, NY	2.3 mi	4 of 5	80	(315) 338-7318

Straight-line miles from the center of Rome. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a respite caregiver can help with

Taking over the usual routine while you are away
Meals, medication reminders and personal care
Company and activities
Overnight cover for a weekend or a trip

Cost

What respite care costs in Rome

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 43% of the $3,821 monthly median income of Rome households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see CDPAP in New York: how to get paid to care for a family member.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a respite caregiver

Family caregivers carry most long-term care in the U.S., and burnout is a common reason a home arrangement breaks down. The federal National Family Caregiver Support Program funds respite through local Area Agencies on Aging, and the ARCH National Respite Locator lists respite programs by state.

Questions worth asking: Can you do a short paid visit first, while I am home? Are you available at short notice if I am ill? Can you stay overnight, and what do you charge for it? More in our respite care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Respite Care in Rome: common questions

Which hospices serve Rome?

Medicare lists 2 hospices for Rome ZIP codes, including Hospice And Palliative Care Inc New Hartford, Lewis County General Hospital Hospice.

How much does respite care cost in Rome?

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 43% of the $3,821 monthly median income of Rome households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Does Medicaid or Medicare pay for respite care?

Medicare pays for short inpatient respite stays only for people on its hospice benefit (Medicare.gov); the hospices on this page serve Rome. Many state Medicaid home and community-based programs, veterans’ programs and the National Family Caregiver Support Program fund respite. Our guide CDPAP in New York: how to get paid to care for a family member covers New York.

More near Rome

More senior care near Rome

Respite Care in nearby cities

Other care in Rome

More for Rome families

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

Respite Care in Rome, NY