Stillwater, Oklahoma

Live-In Caregivers in Stillwater, OK

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Local figures

Live-In Caregivers in Stillwater, OK: the local picture

534
residents 85 or older (1.1% of all residents)
2,497
households headed by someone 65+ own their home (72%)
56%
of Stillwater homes have 3 or more bedrooms (62% in Payne County)
$7.25
Oklahoma minimum wage per hour

About 534 Stillwater residents are 85 or older. Live-in care is most often arranged for this age group, when help is needed through the day and someone should be close at night.

A live-in caregiver needs a private room. 56% of homes in Stillwater have three or more bedrooms (62% in Payne County), while 21% have one bedroom or none, where live-in care rarely works; the median home has 4.7 rooms.

Of Stillwater households headed by someone 65 or older, 2,497 own their home and 961 rent; among householders 85 and older it is 198 owners and 225 renters. Renters should check that the lease allows another adult to live in before anyone moves in.

Stillwater compared with Payne County and Oklahoma

Census figureStillwaterPayne CountyOklahoma
Residents 85 or older1.1%1.5%1.6%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone33%30%30%
Residents 65+ with a disability37%35%41%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)6.2%10%11%
Residents 65 or older10%13%16%
Residents 5+ who speak a language other than English at home11%8.7%12%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$58,659$49,887—

Older residents in towns around Stillwater

TownDistanceResidents 65+Residents 85+
Perkins, OK11 mi46834
Perry, OK17 mi784149
Cushing, OK20 mi1,343251
Guthrie, OK26 mi2,296267
Chandler, OK32 mi49183
Stroud, OK35 mi43276

Emergency hospitals near Stillwater

Hospital with an emergency departmentTownDistanceCMS overall ratingPhone
Stillwater Medical CenterStillwater, OK4.2 mi4 of 5(405) 372-1480
Stillwater Medical - PerryPerry, OK16 minot rated(580) 336-3541
Hillcrest Hospital CushingCushing, OK21 mi4 of 5(918) 225-8152

Straight-line miles from the center of Stillwater. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a live-in caregiver can help with

  • Help across the day: meals, housekeeping, personal care
  • Someone in the home overnight if help is needed
  • Medication reminders and appointment rides
  • Companionship and a steady routine
Cost

What live-in care costs in Stillwater

Live-in pay is often agreed by the day or week, but every hour worked counts toward minimum wage. At $13.32 an hour (the Oklahoma median aide wage), a live-in caregiver paid for 50 hours a week costs about $2,886 a month (59% of the $4,888 monthly median income of Stillwater households headed by someone 65+). Round-the-clock shift care, 168 paid hours a week across two or three caregivers, comes to about $9,697 a month (198% of the $4,888 monthly median income of Stillwater households headed by someone 65+). Private rates are agreed with the caregiver, and overtime rules can add to both. Oklahoma's minimum wage is $7.25 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a live-in caregiver

Put the arrangement in writing: hours on duty, sleep time, days off, the room and pay (federal rules: DOL Fact Sheet 79B).

Questions worth asking: Have you lived in with a client before, and for how long? What days off and sleep time do you need? How do you handle being woken at night? More in our live-in caregivers guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Live-In Caregivers in Stillwater: common questions

Where is the nearest emergency hospital to Stillwater?

Stillwater Medical Center in Stillwater, about 4.2 mi in a straight line from the center of Stillwater (Medicare hospital file). Its listed phone number is (405) 372-1480. In an emergency, call 911.

How much does live-in care cost in Stillwater?

Live-in pay is often agreed by the day or week, but every hour worked counts toward minimum wage. At $13.32 an hour (the Oklahoma median aide wage), a live-in caregiver paid for 50 hours a week costs about $2,886 a month (59% of the $4,888 monthly median income of Stillwater households headed by someone 65+). Round-the-clock shift care, 168 paid hours a week across two or three caregivers, comes to about $9,697 a month (198% of the $4,888 monthly median income of Stillwater households headed by someone 65+). Private rates are agreed with the caregiver, and overtime rules can add to both. Oklahoma's minimum wage is $7.25 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Live-in or 24-hour care in Stillwater?

A live-in caregiver sleeps in the home and has protected sleep and break time. 24-hour care uses two or three caregivers in shifts so someone is always awake; in Stillwater it costs more than three times as much a month (see the cost section above). Choose shifts if help is needed several times a night.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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