Stillwater, Oklahoma

In-Home Care for Veterans in Stillwater, OK

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Local figures

Veterans’ Home Care in Stillwater, OK: the local picture

867
veterans aged 65 or older (17% of residents 65+)
5,127
residents 65 or older (10% of Stillwater)
37%
of residents 65+ report a disability (35% in Payne County)
33%
of residents 65+ in households live alone (30% in Payne County)

About 867 Stillwater residents aged 65 or older are veterans (17% of that age group; 16% in Payne County), out of 1,935 veterans of all adult ages in town.

37% of all residents 65 and older report a disability (35% in Payne County); ask the VA whether a veteran’s needs qualify for its home care programs before you hire privately.

Stillwater compared with Payne County and Oklahoma

Census figureStillwaterPayne CountyOklahoma
Residents 65+ who are veterans17%16%17%
Residents 65+ with a disability37%35%41%
Residents 65 or older10%13%16%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone33%30%30%
Residents 65+ with serious difficulty walking18%18%26%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)6.2%10%11%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$58,659$49,887—

Older residents in towns around Stillwater

TownDistanceResidents 65+Veterans (65+)
Perkins, OK11 mi4683.6%
Perry, OK17 mi78418%
Cushing, OK20 mi1,34318%
Guthrie, OK26 mi2,29620%
Chandler, OK32 mi49118%
Stroud, OK35 mi43216%

Hospitals near Stillwater

Hospital with an emergency departmentTownDistanceCMS overall ratingPhone
Stillwater Medical CenterStillwater, OK4.2 mi4 of 5(405) 372-1480
Stillwater Medical - PerryPerry, OK16 minot rated(580) 336-3541
Hillcrest Hospital CushingCushing, OK21 mi4 of 5(918) 225-8152

Straight-line miles from the center of Stillwater. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a caregiver for a veteran can help with

  • Company and help around the house
  • Personal care: bathing, dressing, toileting
  • Rides to VA and other appointments
  • Meals and medication reminders
Cost

What veterans’ home care costs in Stillwater

At the Oklahoma median aide wage of $13.32 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,154 a month in wages, which is 24% of the $4,888 monthly median income of Stillwater households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Oklahoma's minimum wage is $7.25 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see Medicaid programs for family caregivers: who can be paid, and the rules in 12 states.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a caregiver for a veteran

The VA’s Homemaker and Home Health Aide program sends a trained aide, supervised by a registered nurse, to help eligible veterans with daily activities at home. The Aid and Attendance benefit adds monthly payments to a VA pension for veterans who need help with daily activities. The VA Caregiver Support Line is 1-855-260-3274.

Questions worth asking: Have you cared for veterans before? Can you drive to the VA medical center or clinic? Are you comfortable with the paperwork VA programs need? More in our veterans’ home care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Veterans’ Home Care in Stillwater: common questions

How much does veterans’ home care cost in Stillwater?

At the Oklahoma median aide wage of $13.32 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,154 a month in wages, which is 24% of the $4,888 monthly median income of Stillwater households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. Oklahoma's minimum wage is $7.25 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Does the VA pay for in-home care?

For eligible veterans, VA programs such as Homemaker and Home Health Aide care can provide help at home, and Aid and Attendance can add to a VA pension. Ask the VA about eligibility; the Caregiver Support Line is 1-855-260-3274 (caregiver.va.gov).

More near Stillwater

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Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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