San Mateo, California

In-Home Dementia and Alzheimer's Care in San Mateo, CA

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Local figures

Dementia Care in San Mateo, CA: the local picture

2,991
residents 85 or older (2.9% of all residents)
17,563
residents 65 or older (17% of San Mateo)
33%
of residents 65+ report a disability (28% in San Mateo County)
6+
Medicare-certified nursing homes within 25 miles

San Mateo has about 2,991 residents aged 85 or older among 17,563 aged 65 or older. The risk of Alzheimer’s rises steeply with age, and the Alzheimer’s Association estimates that about a third of people 85 and older have Alzheimer’s dementia.

33% of residents 65 and older report a disability (28% in San Mateo County). The Census counts cognitive difficulty as one kind, alongside hearing, vision, walking, self-care and living independently.

29% of older San Mateo residents in households live alone. For someone with memory loss who lives alone, a few hours of daily check-ins are often the first step.

San Mateo compared with San Mateo County and California

Census figureSan MateoSan Mateo CountyCalifornia
Residents 85 or older2.9%2.5%1.9%
Residents 65 or older17%18%16%
Residents 65+ with a disability33%28%33%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone29%21%23%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)13%9.0%12%
Residents 5+ who speak a language other than English at home47%46%44%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+$79,791$103,766—

Older residents in towns around San Mateo

TownDistanceResidents 65+Residents 85+
Hillsborough, CA2.6 mi2,262220
Foster City, CA3.3 mi5,7591,004
Belmont, CA3.3 mi3,813593
Burlingame, CA3.5 mi4,983884
San Carlos, CA4.8 mi4,894610
Millbrae, CA5.7 mi4,599913

Nursing homes near San Mateo

Nursing homeTownDistanceCMS overall ratingCertified bedsPhone
Brookside Skilled Nursing HospitalSan Mateo, CA1.2 mi5 of 596(650) 349-2161
San Mateo Medical Center D/P SNFSan Mateo, CA2.2 mi1 of 5345(650) 573-3678
Belmont Healthcare CenterBelmont, CA3.7 mi5 of 574(650) 591-9601
Peninsula Post-AcuteBurlingame, CA4.4 mi4 of 562(650) 652-3969
Millbrae Care CenterMillbrae, CA5.3 mi2 of 5140(650) 689-5784
Devonshire Oaks Nursing CenterRedwood City, CA7.4 mi5 of 538(650) 366-9503

Hospices serving San Mateo

HospiceOfficeDistancePhone
Mission Hospice & Home Care, Inc.San Mateo, CA1.1 mi(650) 554-1000
Sutter Care At HomeSan Mateo, CA1.1 mi(650) 685-2830
Helping Hands Home Health Care & Hospice, Inc.Burlingame, CA3.2 mi(650) 286-9000
Medvista Healthcare, IncBurlingame, CA3.2 mi(510) 398-8688

Straight-line miles from the center of San Mateo. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a dementia caregiver can help with

  • Keeping a predictable daily routine
  • Gentle help with bathing, dressing and toileting
  • Meals, hydration and medication reminders
  • Calming approaches for sundowning, agitation and repeated questions
Cost

What dementia care costs in San Mateo

At the California minimum wage of $16.90 an hour (the May 2025 median aide wage, $16.50, is now below it), 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,465 a month in wages, which is 22% of the $6,649 monthly median income of San Mateo households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. California's minimum wage is $16.90 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see How to get paid to care for a family member in California: IHSS, VA, Paid Family Leave.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a dementia caregiver

An estimated 7.2 million Americans aged 65 and older are living with Alzheimer’s dementia, according to the Alzheimer’s Association 2025 Facts and Figures. Most live at home, cared for by family. The Association’s 24/7 Helpline (1-800-272-3900) is free.

Questions worth asking: Tell me about someone with dementia you cared for. What worked? What do you do when a client becomes agitated in the late afternoon? How do you keep someone safe who tries to leave the house? More in our dementia care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Dementia Care in San Mateo: common questions

What nursing homes are near San Mateo?

The closest Medicare-certified nursing homes are Brookside Skilled Nursing Hospital in San Mateo (1.2 mi, 5 of 5 overall); San Mateo Medical Center D/P SNF in San Mateo (2.2 mi, 1 of 5 overall); Belmont Healthcare Center in Belmont (3.7 mi, 5 of 5 overall). Ratings are from Medicare Care Compare.

How much does dementia care cost in San Mateo?

At the California minimum wage of $16.90 an hour (the May 2025 median aide wage, $16.50, is now below it), 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,465 a month in wages, which is 22% of the $6,649 monthly median income of San Mateo households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. California's minimum wage is $16.90 an hour (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

When does someone with dementia need care at home?

Common signs are missed meals or medication, getting lost in familiar places, unsafe cooking or driving, and a family caregiver who is exhausted. Many families start with a few hours a day and add hours, nights or live-in help as the disease progresses.

Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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