In-Home Support for Adults With Disabilities in Selden, NY
Support at home for adults under 65 with a physical, intellectual or developmental disability, so they can live as independently as they choose. Post what you need in Selden for free and hire a caregiver directly, with no agency mark-up.

Disability Care for Adults in Selden, NY: the local picture
About 1,621 Selden residents aged 18 to 64 report a disability (12%; 7.8% in Suffolk County).
535 of them have difficulty doing errands such as shopping or visiting a doctor alone, the kind of help a support caregiver gives.
3.6% of Selden households have no vehicle (5.1% in Suffolk County); say in your posting if you need a caregiver who drives.
Selden compared with Suffolk County and New York
| Census figure | Selden | Suffolk County | New York |
|---|---|---|---|
| Residents 18 to 64 with a disability | 12% | 7.8% | 9.8% |
| Residents 18 to 64 with difficulty doing errands alone | 3.9% | 3.2% | 3.8% |
| Households with no vehicle | 3.6% | 5.1% | 29% |
| Residents 5+ who speak a language other than English at home | 24% | 25% | 31% |
| Residents 65+ with a disability | 34% | 28% | 32% |
| Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.) | 8.5% | 7.3% | 13% |
| Median income, households headed by someone 65+ | $80,507 | $87,077 | — |
Older residents in towns around Selden
| Town | Distance | Residents 65+ | Disability (18 to 64) |
|---|---|---|---|
| Centereach, NY | 1.9 mi | 4,757 | 6.8% |
| Coram, NY | 2.2 mi | 7,167 | 9.3% |
| Farmingville, NY | 2.3 mi | 1,858 | 6.7% |
| Terryville, NY | 2.6 mi | 1,640 | 8.5% |
| Lake Grove, NY | 3.8 mi | 1,946 | 12% |
| Port Jefferson Station, NY | 3.9 mi | 925 | 9.5% |
Home health agencies serving Selden
| Agency | Office | Distance | CMS quality stars | Services listed | Phone |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Centerwell Home Health | Hauppauge, NY | 8.5 mi | 5 of 5 | nursing, physical therapy, occupational therapy, speech therapy, medical social work, home health aides | (631) 232-6030 |
| Revival Home Health Care | Staten Island, NY | 57 mi | 5 of 5 | nursing, physical therapy, occupational therapy, speech therapy, medical social work, home health aides | (718) 629-1000 |
| Tender Loving Care, An Amedisys Company | Medford, NY | 4.9 mi | 4.5 of 5 | nursing, physical therapy, occupational therapy, speech therapy, medical social work, home health aides | (631) 447-2020 |
| Vns & Hospice Of Suffolk Inc Chha | Northport, NY | 15 mi | 4.5 of 5 | nursing, physical therapy, occupational therapy, speech therapy, medical social work, home health aides | (631) 261-7200 |
| Extended Home Care | Brooklyn, NY | 52 mi | 4.5 of 5 | nursing, physical therapy, occupational therapy, speech therapy, medical social work, home health aides | (212) 356-4200 |
Straight-line miles from the center of Selden. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.
What a disability support caregiver can help with
- Personal care, on the person’s terms
- Cooking, shopping and housekeeping
- Getting to work, school, appointments and activities
- Keeping routines the person sets
What disability care for adults costs in Selden
At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 25% of the $6,709 monthly median income of Selden households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).
Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see CDPAP in New York: how to get paid to care for a family member.
What to know before hiring a disability support caregiver
Many state Medicaid programs let adults with disabilities direct their own care: they, or a representative, hire and supervise the caregiver.
Questions worth asking: Have you supported adults with a disability like mine (or my family member’s)? How do you support someone to do things themselves? Can you drive to work, school or day programs? More in our disability care for adults guide.
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Disability Care for Adults in Selden: common questions
How much does disability care for adults cost in Selden?
At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 25% of the $6,709 monthly median income of Selden households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).
Can an adult with a disability hire their own caregiver?
Yes. Many state Medicaid programs offer self-direction, where the person or a representative hires and supervises the caregiver. Our guide CDPAP in New York: how to get paid to care for a family member covers New York.
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Disability Care for Adults in nearby cities
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- Disability Care for Adults in Lake Grove, NY
- Disability Care for Adults in Port Jefferson Station, NY
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Sources
Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.
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