Personal Care in Selden, NY: Help With Bathing & Dressing

Local figures

Personal Care in Selden, NY: the local picture

16%

of residents 65+ have difficulty dressing or bathing (6.7% in Suffolk County)

23%

of residents 65+ have serious difficulty walking or climbing stairs (18% in Suffolk County)

433

residents 85 or older (2.0% of all residents)

14

Medicare-certified home health agencies list Selden ZIP codes in their service area

About 582 Selden residents aged 65 or older have difficulty dressing or bathing (16%; 6.7% in Suffolk County). The Census Bureau calls this a self-care difficulty, and it is what personal care is for.

815 have serious difficulty walking or climbing stairs (23%), so many personal care visits also mean help getting to the bathroom or shower safely.

433 of the 3,540 older residents are 85 or older; needs for hands-on help rise with age.

Selden compared with Suffolk County and New York

Census figure	Selden	Suffolk County	New York
Residents 65+ with difficulty dressing or bathing	16%	6.7%	8.3%
Residents 65+ with serious difficulty walking	23%	18%	21%
Residents 85 or older	2.0%	2.2%	2.2%
Residents 65+ with a disability	34%	28%	32%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone	17%	23%	29%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)	8.5%	7.3%	13%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+	$80,507	$87,077	—

Older residents in towns around Selden

Town	Distance	Residents 65+	Self-care difficulty (65+)
Centereach, NY	1.9 mi	4,757	7.7%
Coram, NY	2.2 mi	7,167	10%
Farmingville, NY	2.3 mi	1,858	5.1%
Terryville, NY	2.6 mi	1,640	4.1%
Lake Grove, NY	3.8 mi	1,946	9.4%
Port Jefferson Station, NY	3.9 mi	925	4.4%

Home health agencies with aides serving Selden

Agency	Office	Distance	CMS quality stars	Services listed	Phone
Centerwell Home Health	Hauppauge, NY	8.5 mi	5 of 5	nursing, physical therapy, occupational therapy, speech therapy, medical social work, home health aides	(631) 232-6030
Revival Home Health Care	Staten Island, NY	57 mi	5 of 5	nursing, physical therapy, occupational therapy, speech therapy, medical social work, home health aides	(718) 629-1000
Tender Loving Care, An Amedisys Company	Medford, NY	4.9 mi	4.5 of 5	nursing, physical therapy, occupational therapy, speech therapy, medical social work, home health aides	(631) 447-2020
Vns & Hospice Of Suffolk Inc Chha	Northport, NY	15 mi	4.5 of 5	nursing, physical therapy, occupational therapy, speech therapy, medical social work, home health aides	(631) 261-7200
Extended Home Care	Brooklyn, NY	52 mi	4.5 of 5	nursing, physical therapy, occupational therapy, speech therapy, medical social work, home health aides	(212) 356-4200
Constellation Home Care	Syosset, NY	24 mi	3.5 of 5	nursing, physical therapy, occupational therapy, speech therapy, medical social work, home health aides	(531) 246-4100

Straight-line miles from the center of Selden. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a personal care aide can help with

Bathing or showering, with a shower chair if needed
Dressing and undressing
Toileting and incontinence care
Grooming: hair, shaving and oral care

Cost

What personal care costs in Selden

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 25% of the $6,709 monthly median income of Selden households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see CDPAP in New York: how to get paid to care for a family member.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a personal care aide

The Census Bureau asks whether a person has difficulty dressing or bathing, which it calls a self-care difficulty; it is the clearest sign that someone needs personal care. Medicare does not pay for personal care when it is the only care needed (Medicare.gov), but many state Medicaid programs do for people who qualify.

Questions worth asking: How do you protect a client’s dignity during bathing and toileting? Are you trained in safe transfers? Can you keep the same morning or evening hours each day? More in our personal care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Personal Care in Selden: common questions

How much does personal care cost in Selden?

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 25% of the $6,709 monthly median income of Selden households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

What is the difference between personal care and companion care?

Companion care is company and help around the house. Personal care is hands-on help with the body: bathing, dressing, toileting and grooming. Many caregivers offer both; say in your posting which you need.

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Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

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