Veterans' Home Care in Selden, NY: Caregivers for Veterans

Local figures

Veterans’ Home Care in Selden, NY: the local picture

466

veterans aged 65 or older (13% of residents 65+)

3,540

residents 65 or older (16% of Selden)

34%

of residents 65+ report a disability (28% in Suffolk County)

17%

of residents 65+ in households live alone (23% in Suffolk County)

About 466 Selden residents aged 65 or older are veterans (13% of that age group; 11% in Suffolk County), out of 699 veterans of all adult ages in town.

34% of all residents 65 and older report a disability (28% in Suffolk County); ask the VA whether a veteran’s needs qualify for its home care programs before you hire privately.

Selden compared with Suffolk County and New York

Census figure	Selden	Suffolk County	New York
Residents 65+ who are veterans	13%	11%	9.0%
Residents 65+ with a disability	34%	28%	32%
Residents 65 or older	16%	18%	18%
Residents 65+ in households who live alone	17%	23%	29%
Residents 65+ with serious difficulty walking	23%	18%	21%
Residents 65+ below the poverty line (approx.)	8.5%	7.3%	13%
Median income, households headed by someone 65+	$80,507	$87,077	—

Older residents in towns around Selden

Town	Distance	Residents 65+	Veterans (65+)
Centereach, NY	1.9 mi	4,757	14%
Coram, NY	2.2 mi	7,167	13%
Farmingville, NY	2.3 mi	1,858	18%
Terryville, NY	2.6 mi	1,640	15%
Lake Grove, NY	3.8 mi	1,946	8.9%
Port Jefferson Station, NY	3.9 mi	925	4.1%

Hospitals near Selden

Hospital with an emergency department	Town	Distance	CMS overall rating	Phone
John T Mather Memorial Hospital Of Port Jefferson	Port Jefferson, NY	5.2 mi	5 of 5	(631) 473-1320
St Charles Hospital	Port Jefferson, NY	5.2 mi	5 of 5	(631) 474-6000
Suny/Stony Brook University Hospital	Stony Brook, NY	6.2 mi	5 of 5	(631) 444-4000

Straight-line miles from the center of Selden. Medicare (CMS) data, October 2026; call ahead to confirm. We are not affiliated with these providers.

What it covers

What a caregiver for a veteran can help with

Company and help around the house
Personal care: bathing, dressing, toileting
Rides to VA and other appointments
Meals and medication reminders

Cost

What veterans’ home care costs in Selden

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 25% of the $6,709 monthly median income of Selden households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Hiring directly, you agree the rate with the caregiver and usually become the household employer (U.S. Department of Labor rules). Some families qualify for programs that pay for care at home; see CDPAP in New York: how to get paid to care for a family member.

Before you hire

What to know before hiring a caregiver for a veteran

The VA’s Homemaker and Home Health Aide program sends a trained aide, supervised by a registered nurse, to help eligible veterans with daily activities at home. The Aid and Attendance benefit adds monthly payments to a VA pension for veterans who need help with daily activities. The VA Caregiver Support Line is 1-855-260-3274.

Questions worth asking: Have you cared for veterans before? Can you drive to the VA medical center or clinic? Are you comfortable with the paperwork VA programs need? More in our veterans’ home care guide.

CaregiverConnect does not run background checks. Check identity, references and any certification yourself before anyone starts. The Safety Center explains how.

Questions

Veterans’ Home Care in Selden: common questions

How much does veterans’ home care cost in Selden?

At the New York median aide wage of $19.05 an hour, 20 hours of help a week comes to about $1,651 a month in wages, which is 25% of the $6,709 monthly median income of Selden households headed by someone 65 or older. Private rates are agreed directly with the caregiver, so yours may be higher or lower. New York's minimum wage is $17.00 in New York City, Nassau, Suffolk and Westchester counties, $16.00 in the rest of the state (U.S. Department of Labor table, updated July 1, 2026).

Does the VA pay for in-home care?

For eligible veterans, VA programs such as Homemaker and Home Health Aide care can provide help at home, and Aid and Attendance can add to a VA pension. Ask the VA about eligibility; the Caregiver Support Line is 1-855-260-3274 (caregiver.va.gov).

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Sources

Census ACS 2020–2024 5-year; CMS provider data (October 25, 2026); U.S. DOL state minimum wages (July 1, 2026); BLS OEWS May 2025 aide wages, which cover employed aides rather than private rates.

In-Home Care for Veterans in Selden, NY